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Happy Birthday to meee!
Wishing myself the continous help of God, new beginnings, wisdom, divine direction in this new age ππ
Cheers! π₯
I've received salvation. I've experienced the unconditional love of God. I've been made a son, and declared righteous by the works of Jesus, all my sins blotted out. I've been washed clean by His blood.
Nothing can ever top that. Nothing and no one.
I'll give married women some free advice...
Initiate the physical affection. It flips a switch in his brain. All the time. I know. I'm a man.
Tell him you are proud of him. It says something to his soul. π
But if you want to fortify the foundation of a real, everyday marriage, add these to the list:
Show genuine interest in what he's building. When heβs burning the midnight oil working on a side hustle, fixing a stubborn line of code, or trying to get a new project off the ground, just bringing him a drink and asking how it's going makes him feel like he can conquer the world.
Compliment his problem solving. Whether he finally wrangled a tricky contractor for a home project, figured out the household budget, or just fixed something broken around the house, acknowledging his competence makes him feel ten feet tall. Men want to feel useful to you. If you're doing it all, you make him feel useless and men don't like that.
Give him the grace to decompress. When his brain is fried from a long work sprint or carrying the weight of providing, giving him 30 minutes of absolute, guilt free downtime to reset before he jumps into dad mode is a massive act of love.
Be direct with what you want. Dropping hints is exhausting for both of you. Telling him exactly what you need... whether itβs emotional support, help with the kids, or just a hug... relieves the pressure of him having to guess, and he will love you for the clarity.
Remind him that you still desire him. A random wink, grabbing his arm, or a kiss that lasts just a little longer than usual reminds him that underneath all the heavy responsibilities, you still see him as your man, not just a roommate who helps pay the bills.
Sometimes, just rub his stomach.
Men carry a lot of quiet pressure. Being his safest place to land is the ultimate romance.
We were at a party when one of his old friends the kind who thinks sheβs funny said,
β¨βIf you ever get tired of her, you know where to find me.β
She smiled like it was harmless.
Before I could even process it, he said,β¨βI donβt entertain disrespect. Especially not toward my wife.β
No laugh. No βsheβs joking.β No softening it.
The room shifted.
He didnβt protect my feelings quietly later.β¨He protected my dignity right there.
And I realized something that night β¨loyalty isnβt what someone says in private.β¨Itβs what they shut down in public.
This girl beside me inside maruwa don chop like 5 times.
Shawarma
Ponmo
Protein( fish/meat) roll
And she no even drink water or ask us if we are interested, o rude gan
Wow! Watch this conformity experiment. Actors stand on a beep, pressuring an unwitting woman to follow. Alone, she continues, then influences newcomers. This shows how senseless rules spread like viruses. Think critically, don't be a sheep.