when the attachment fades you see they were just a selfish ego-driven person who couldn’t communicate, stayed avoidant, and played victim the whole time
After he cheats & you stay with him, you’ll never know who he’s calling when he’s not with you, you’ll never know who he’s going to see when he’s not with you, you will simply never know & that’s something you’ll have to live with because you chose to stay.
As i get older, realize that the purest form of love is consideration, When someone thinks about how things would make you feel it shows true respect and genuine feelings.
She's trying to heal. While trying to grieve. While trying to forgive. While trying to let go. While trying to love. While trying to be loved. That's a lot for one woman's soul
If you offer me a sincere apology and change your behavior, I will not bring up "the past" again. However, if you apologize with no change in behavior, not only is that manipulation, but what you call "the past" is actually the present.
There's a line that should never be crossed. When someone is aware that you're facing death, illness, crisis, or deep personal loss, and they still mistreat you, something darker is at play.
Cruelty in moments of vulnerability isn't accidental. It's intentional. And when a person can hurt you while knowing exactly how fragile you are, that's not just abusive behavior. It's a complete.. absence of empathy.
You don't always need words to understand your place in someone's life. Sometimes it's in what they don't do; the conversations they don't try to fix. The distance they don't close. The silence they're comfortable letting grow.
And slowly, you begin to understand that if someone truly wanted you there, they wouldn't let things fall apart so easily