Have an idol.
Have a favorite band.
Have a sport team you support.
Have events/places you want to visit.
Have hobbies and wish lists, they keep you alive.
..Sudah tiba lah saatnya, dimana gue berhenti dipanggil “Kak” dan mulai dipanggil “Bu” di mana-mana….. 🥲����🥲 year of acceptance.. year of acceptance… (sambil elus-elus dada)
Some people don’t know how to maintain a relationship. Dikiranya semua orang itu seasonal, kalo dah abis masanya ya selesai. Jadinya ga ada usaha utk keep temen2.
I wanna keep my friends, tapi kl ga berbalas, gw siap bilang “I don’t feel appreciated. I am ready to let go now.”
Sebagai orang yg kerjaannya bikin bahan bos hampir tiap hari, gw mau sampaikan salah satu alasan kenapa ppt pejabat kayak gini:
Paradigma bahwa ppt bukan sebagai alat bantu bicara, tetapi database.
Kenapa?
Karena tiba2 bos ditanyain something ama lawan bicara, uda siap
“per my last email” = fuck you
“apologies for the delay” = fuck me
“cc’ing for visibility” = you’re fucked
“checking in in this” = i’m fucked
“let’s revisit in Q4” = fuck this
“i’m not sure that’s aligned” = fuck that
“respectfully yours” = fuck all y’all
don’t force yourself to forgive anyone. how you feel about what happened to you is valid. how you feel about the person who deeply hurt or abused you is valid. take as much time as you need to process the trauma that was unfairly done to you.
just because you were triggered again, doesn’t mean you haven’t healed some. repairing wounds takes time. just because you relapsed, doesn’t mean you haven’t made progress. don’t discount your hardwork. don’t beat yourself up for being human.
Ini Debbie, gadis dengan monster dalam kepalanya, selalu bilang gapapa, sangat peduli pada dunia, tapi keras pada diri sendiri.
Mirip seseorang, ya?
Utas ini berisi hal-hal yang mungkin ingin Debbie, kamu, dan aku sendiri dengar agar punya keyakinan: Semua akan baik-baik aja.
Dunia kerja itu ga cuma ngomongin gaji
Tapi juga
• Kerjaan yang bikin lo happy
• Lingkungan kerja yang ga toxic
• Atasan yang memanusiakan manusia
• Tempat kerja yang sejalan sama value lo