In Nigeria, we live by the dash.
Everyone expects you to dash them. The security man doing his job, the police doing his job, the person giving you direction, the one helping with a parking space, the babe you said hi to, the relations that think you have money.
The list is endless.
“If you want to know that I have money, look at my wife” A statement a fooIish man makes proudly.
You don’t take care yourself, you take care of your wife only, you begin to look unattractive to her, she begins to look more attractive to other men outside, she begins to find men who have been taking care of themselves attractive, she start cheating on you with men who understand that at no point should you abandon yourself, she then gets tired of your unattractive and unkempt self, dumps you after.
You then go ahead screaming; women are eviI, after all I did for you, asking her “what didn’t I do for you?”.
Men need to understand that no matter what, your well being should always come first. Men also need to understand that you can take care of yourself and your woman at the same time, and if you have to neglect one, it shouldn’t be you.
Until a lot of men understand this, they will continue to prepare their wives for men who take good care of themselves out there.
Wizkid coming out to defend FC is the biggest win in this back & forth with Seun Kuti.
He has locked their loyalty down heavily this 2026.
Projects with Asake on the way, new singles & concerts across the world - The beef is a win for him.
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