Terry Primm was introduced as the new Siena women's basketball head coach on Monday, and one thing you can't deny is his impact on his players.
"We were very adamant about Terry getting the job."
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A pair of First Team #MAACHoops selections for the first time in 3โฃ0โฃ yearsโผ๏ธ
๐: First-ever triple double, program & MAAC SS steals record
๐: Team's leading scorer, back-to-back MAAC Player of the Week ๐
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๐ Program & #MAACHoops single-season steals records
๐ Second in @MarchMadnessWBB in total steals and steals per-game
๐ 5โฃ double-doubles this season
Elisa put in the work on defense ๐ช
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๐ BIGGER THAN BASKETBALL ๐
Thursday's 2โฃ3โฃrd annual Pink Zone game means so much more to #SienaSaints players and coaches with personal connections to breast cancer
Help support the cause and celebrate survivors and thrivers on Thursday! ๐๐
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Nick Saban got fired up.
It was December 2014. A reporter asked about defensive lineman D.J. Pettway: โHow gratifying is it to you to see him make the most of his second chance?โ
Saban launched into a speech every human needs to hear.
(Pettway, who was dismissed from Alabama a year prior, returned to the program and earned his degree.)
Hereโs Saban on Second Chances:
โThereโs always a lot of criticism out there when somebody does something wrong. Everybody wants to know, how are you gonna punish the guy?
โBut thereโs not enough, for 19 and 20 year old kids, people out there saying, why donโt you give them another chance.
โGuy makes a mistake. Where do you want him to be? Want him to be in the street? Or do you want him to be here graduating?
โMuhsin Muhammad played for me at Michigan State. Everybody in the school, every newspaper guy, everybody was killing the guy because he got in trouble and said thereโs no way he should be on our team. I didnโt kick him off the team. I suspended him, I made him do stuff.
โHe graduated from Michigan State. He played 15 years in the league. Heโs the president of a company now. He has 7 children, and his oldest daughter goes to Princeton. So, who was right?
โI feel strong about this now. About all the criticism out there of every guy thatโs 19 years old that makes a mistake and you all kill him. And then some people wonโt stand up for him.
โSo my question to you is, where do you want him to be?
โYou want to condemn him to a life sentence? Or do you want the guy to have his children going to Princeton?โ
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Itโs an important message in a world filled with hate.
My takeaways:
1. Everyone makes mistakes. We just forget our own.
2. We tend to judge others who mess up. The better response is compassion.
3. Mistakes are teaching moments, first and foremost. Donโt waste that opportunity.
4. One mistake doesnโt (necessarily) make someone a bad person. Most people have the potential to learn, move on and do better.
5. That said, mistakes require accountability and carry consequences. You have to own them.
6. Second chances donโt guarantee third chances.
7. If you want to feel self-righteous, condemn someone. If you want to actually make a difference, love them.
8. The world needs more loving discipline.
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