Whenever I’m talking to a guy and they ask “what’s the one thing I’ll do that’ll make you cut me off?”
My response is always: don’t worry when you do it you’ll find out
Becoming less reactive is a big part of growth and decreasing stress. Sometimes this type of avoidance can be looked at as lack of interest or uncaring, but it isn't. If you let everything get you worked up, you're damaging your mind, body and soul.
Being disliked by people with ugly spirits is protection. I have no desire to be connected to people who operate from jealousy, wickedness, negativity, entitlement, manipulation or a lack of integrity. Life is spiritual. Not every heart is safe to stay connected to..
entitlement is something to watch for because a lot of abuse comes from people who simply feel entitled to hurt you, invade your space, break your boundaries, control your life, and so on. they operate from a completely different moral compass than the rest of us.
If you consider me in the way I wish to be considered without me telling you to consider me like that, we’re locked in for life. That’s what being seen truly is.
I only fight for relationships I want to keep. I don’t like to argue. If I’m watching someone misbehave and not saying anything it’s because I don’t expect the relationship to last. I genuinely don’t want the person to change, bye bye or distance is down the road.
I really pray and wish,
that every Nigerian Doctor,
finds the means to leave that country.
You deserve better.
You won’t be loved abroad. Ofc.
But the indifference of foreigners.
is better than the hate of your own kinsmen.
Nigerians’ vitriol is unfathomable. 💔
They dont tell you this but you can lowkey just take an extended break from dating or any romantic endeavour and not let that aspect of life bother you for years on end😭