Mr Racksz

Mogul. ChelseaFC 💙. IG: mrracksz_official.

[Tudo Bams @tudobams]

Imagine for a second having a President who executes perfectly such as this; frankly speaking, watching this gave me goosebumps:

-Great communication skills
-Clarity of thoughts
-Precise understanding of the issues
- Facts, figures, the whole enchilada!

What more can you ask for in a global leader? It’s about time!

-A new Nigeria is POssible
#OK2027

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

That is why I don't know how 9ja men do it. You are marrying someone who chooses you just because you can provide, and you even brag about how you can fund her life better than those 'small boys' approaching her.

Yet, you're always scared when a richer man approaches her or when anything happens to your finances. You even expect to be disrespected by your own woman when time are bad.

GOD FORBID!

[Mr Racksz @MrRacksz_]

Do you remember when you joined X? I do! #MyXAnniversary

[Taiwo_junzi @taiwo_junzi]

IF YOU ARE UNMARRIED, TAKE YOUR TIME TO READ THIS!!!!

If you are dating to marry, please ask yourself this questions and do not lie to yourself and accept the facts that is in front of you.

- Does this man/woman like me as human being?!
- Are they in my life because of tangible things that can be lost or easily taken away from me?
- Is it my money/height/ass/breast/face/fame that this human being is in my life for?!
- Would this person be able to respect me and accord me honour wherever we find ourselves in the world?!
- Is this person a good human being?!
- Does this person’s charity begin at home?!
- What kind of values guide this person and his/her family?!
- How long have I known this person and can I live with the patterns of behavior I’ve observed in this person?!
- Healthwise, are we also compatible?!
- Am I willing to sacrifice myself for this person on a consistent basis?!
- Is this person capable of forgiveness or the person is obsessed with vengeance?!

Please take your time to really know the person you are looking to get married to. Let your knowledge of that person inform your decision to marry him/her, not your biological clock, not konji, not your immigration status or defintely not your pocket.

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Again, marriage isn’t a do or die affair but it’s a journey that should be embarked on with understanding. Marriage requires consistent work and an insane level of commitment for it to work.

Do not forgive a person for cheating in hope that they would never cheat again!
Do not forgive a person for beating you in hope that they would never hit you again!
Do not forgive a person for being selfish and wicked towards you in hope that marriage will suddenly make them become kinder human beings to you.

People are their patterns and people fundamentally do not change!!!

Even if social media is endorsing broken marriages as a thing to be proud of, it’s still a very painful and stressful experience. You cannot afford to marry wrongly or just go into marriage because you now have money or because you are now in your 30’s.

In the coming years, the world will experience more broken families. Broken marriages would be rampant so much that staying committed to one person for 10 or 20 years could soon be viewed as something exceptional rather than normal.

That is why choosing who you build a family with should never be rushed. Attraction is important, but so are character, values, emotional maturity, patience, loyalty, and shared purpose. The foundation you lay today will shape not only your future, but also the lives of the children and generations that come after you.

Do your part to build a home that brings stability instead of trauma, peace instead of dysfunction, and strength instead of brokenness. A healthy family is not just a personal blessing, it is a contribution to a better society.

I’m rooting for you!!!

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

This is how my lovely wife and I practice our marriage.

I don't know of any other marriage that would produce a better result than this one.

You Gen Zs need proper mentorship and guidance.

Your iberibe is too much.

Someone will soon come under this to give AI comment.

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[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Lasting love has to be built on mutual regard and respect. It is about seeing the other person.

When I watch couples, sometimes, I can sense a blindness has set in. They have stopped seeing each other. It is not easy to see another person.

[The married man @marriedmn]

Marriage doesn’t fail because of lack of love.

It fails because men don’t understand these 8 principles that guide marriage.

They think its just sex and vibes forever.

If you master these 8 principles… your marriage will outlast 90% of others......

[Man of Letters. @Letter_to_Jack]

I want to put this out here because some single persons who are about to make the ultimate decision of marriage might need it:

There’s a big difference between being financially comfortable as a single person and being comfortable when you’re married.

As a single person, it’s easy to feel like you’ve figured things out because your expenses are controlled and predictable. But the moment you get married, your baseline for everything changes. What you see as financial comfort now would require much more management to be enough. Because you have to feed, shelter and cater for 2 adults.

If you really want to understand or get ahead of it, take your current recurring expenses and multiply it by 4. That’s the kind of financial capacity it takes to maintain the same level of comfort you currently enjoy as a single person.

There is more. Being married without children is one thing. When you introduce children into the equation, the demands increases. At that point, multiply your single person expenses by eight for two kids. That’s when the real weight of responsibility starts to show.

Those ‘luxuries’ and cravings you will still be able to afford them, but you would not buy them. Because bills will come at you thick and fast, never ending. Eventually, you recondition to anticipate unforeseen expenses and become more conservative with personal spending.

My point is: Prepare. Have a trajectory and make sure you marry a partner who would work to support your home. That way, your income increases proportionally with your expenses.

Many single people think they’ve cracked the code on financial comfort and they jump into marriage without well detailed plans. They forget to factor that as single people, they’re operating in a controlled environment with limited variables. You can only understand it when you step into that phase of life.

[Nathan @OIuwatosin]

In terms of behavioral consistency, the most reliable predictor of future performance, is past performance.

You can’t get a friend or a partner with a bad track record and believe you’re special so it can’t happen to you. It will

[Taiwo_junzi @taiwo_junzi]

Let me tell you why you cannot satisfy a woman with your money and also why you cannot use your bumbum to tame a man forever.

First Reason is HEDONISTIC ADAPTATION

It’s a concept I fell in love with the very moment I learnt. And it simply emphasizes how that no matter how much we want something, the moment we have it, it becomes normal to us.

A good example of this for men who think they can earn the submission of a woman with provision is how that no matter what you provide and how much you do, your woman would always come to get used to it. I mean, we all saw Regina Daniels ask New Nwoko what he had done for her…

If you think money will keep someone loyal, time will humble you. People get used to comfort very quickly.

For women who think their bumbum is the be all end all, after a man sleeps with you 7 times, there’s actually going to be nothing about your body that would entice him the way it did the first time. This is especially true if he didn’t crack your hymen open. And for many men, the moment they nut once that’s all.

Desire that is only based on the body often fades once familiarity enters.

Second Reason YOU CANNOT NEGOTIATE GENUINE DESIRE

You cannot force love by being useful…
You cannot buy respect by over-giving…
You cannot earn genuine affection by performing endlessly…

People love and like what they want regardless of what you do and who you are. It’s why it’s a fool’s errand trying to win women or men over with your actions or gifts.

A person can appreciate your efforts and still not love you, someone can enjoy your benefits and still not desire you, someone can accept your sacrifices and still never choose you. That’s why ThatCursedGirl was quick to tell us she would never be able to house her husband even if he only got her Lexus weeks before the conversation started.

People comfortable in their own skin and with a conscience of their own wouldn’t be able to bring themselves to marry or commit to you simply because of your actions

It would require their soul actually choosing you as there would always be better people than you. And they would meet them.

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What I’m saying in essence is Simple.

Build value…
Be generous…
Be attractive…
Be well-rounded…
But never confuse these things for the foundation of love.

Because at the end of the day, the right person will not stay because of what you provide or the shape of your bumbum. They will stay even after they’ve seen you finish because, in the deepest part of themselves, they have chosen you.

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

- I maintain the argument that you have more work to do with a Woman that wants you and genuinely wants the best for you, than you do with a Woman that doesn’t really want you.

I’ll explain…

When a Woman isn’t really into you, it’d be glaring that all she’s there for is for what she can get..

And that’s not so hard to tell and figure(especially if you have money as a Man).. You can easily see all she demands is financial attention.. And you already have it.. So that’s not so much work.. You’re just stupid to think you can build something genuine with that type of person.. But it’d be an easy ride ultimately for the guy.
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Now the Woman that indeed wants you and wants the best for you..

It’d require you to start doing better, living right, she’d desire your attention, she’d monitor your friendships, career choices, your decision making game has to be on-point, now you have to show up more beyond finances because she’d need your sense of judgement with so many things going on even in her own life.

So the question is..

Are you even mentally ready for a good woman that genuinely wants you ?

Are you a solid human being enough to navigate life with a super solid Woman ?

It’s simple!(and ironic too) coz it’s easier dealing with babes that are not really into you.

Why do you think simps with money almost always get to be with useless girls then get burnt later ?

The ‘loser’ in them is just trying to use money to cover up for what is required of them to be with a sensible woman that genuinely wants them.

[Mr Sergio @samson_samsen]

Men are suffering and incurring losses in marriage because they misread the environment that produced the woman they married.

In societies like Nigeria, marriage is not built on love.
It is built on survival alignment.

But the Nigerian man, like men from similar climes, walks into marriage with poetry in his chest and blindness in his eyes.
He leads with love, and promises… in a system governed by pressure, scarcity, and incentives.

He sees affection and thinks it love.
He feels compliance and calls it loyalty.

Meanwhile, the woman is responding to relief.
Relief from bills, uncertainty, instability, and the silent terror of being stranded.

Remove that pressure, and you will meet her unfiltered nature.
Not because she changed - sometimes she changed - but because the condition that held her in place expired.

These man?
He marries like Nigeria is heaven.

He forgets that if hardship built the bond, comfort will test it.
He forgets that if money is the glue, a higher bidder is always a threat.

So when reality shifts - when he goes broke, when she earns more, when she relocate - he lazily calls it betrayal.
But it is not betrayal. It is exposure.

A man who builds on emotion in a survival system is not romantic.
He is structurally irresponsible.

Men do not lose their marriage and ofcourse resources, to a woman.
They lose it to ignorance of what was holding it together.

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

Listen attentively!

[𝘼 𝙄 𝙈. 👨🏽‍🚀 @AimThaMachine_]

You have no idea what this clip is going to do for so many relationships in Nigeria bro. This clip go wake make people up walai 😂😂😂 make I first save am cos situation wey I go need post am no far.

Cc: Roby Ekpo X Mayowa Lambe

[Aji Bussu Onye Mpiawa azụ 🇨🇮 @AfamDeluxo]

I tried explaining this to someone before, but it never quite landed. Maybe this video will make it clearer. Learn to guard your soul carefully. Be intentional about what you allow in.

[Alabi @the_Lawrenz]

when you read this guide and realise you could have become self sufficient years ago.

[Mr Racksz @MrRacksz_]

Andrey Santos today reminds me of Kovačić at Chelsea. Brilliant defending 👏🏽

[KING CHIDI @guzu_p]

Bro spoke fact 🔥

[Babatunde. O. @babatunde_o_a]

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