Roc Johnson

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[Dr. Daniel Umesi O @UmesiDaniel]

STAGES OF CHEATING IN MARRIAGE...✍🏽

STAGE 1: BUILD UP OF SEXUAL PRESSURE:

~ You first Think of having sex with someone different from your spouse.

~ You Notice that sexy colleague, your spouse's friend and focus your attention on their features eg curves for women or heights for men.

~ These thoughts are uncontrolled and build pressure for sex / Intimacy with them

~ Thoughts of being intimate with them intensifies.

~ Imagine thing about having sex with someone else's wife or husband all day or someone you are not married to. That's why cheating starts and ends in the mind.

~ You start giving them attention/ flirting with them unnecessarily.

IMPORTANT TO NOTE:
Temptations are surely coming in your Marriage but it's better you control your Mind and by extension your actions at this stages. Don't entertain thoughts of lust.

STAGE 2: ACTING OUT

~ Deliberatetly meeting or exposing yourself to someone you have sexual feelings apart from your spouse.

~ Calls start being regular you now talk Daily.

~ As a lady you may start smiling at him at every chance to show you are interested even laughing at his silly jokes.

~ Showing up at bars dressed indecently exposing yourself/ body or even night clubs. Some even go to churches with their bodies exposed.

~ Staying up late so your spouse can sleep so you start chatting to your secret lover on phone, WhatsApp, sms etc.

~ Secret calls being made in the toilet, outside the house, in the car etc.

IMPORTANT TO NOTE:
Deliberately meeting these people will intensify your sexual feelings towards them. Stop before it's too late. You are going to bed with them if you don't. You even forget that you are a Born again child of God.

STAGE 3: THE SEX ACT

~ The sex Act is the breaking point in sexual pressure that began the cycle.

~ SIN becomes undeniable, you are sinning against God, your spouse, and your marriage.

~ Scriptures have being violated, you feel bad.

~ You start losing affection to your spouse.

~ You are likely to become Hooked to your secret lover / soul tie and start disrespecting your spouse.

~ If the sexual act continues it creates further damage to marriage and the more the Soul Tie becomes stronger.

~ You even stop going to church because you are embarrassed and because of your guilty conscience before God.

IMPORTANT TO NOTE:
Consequences of sex are inevitable. Problem at home are first Consequences, arguments etc. Possible children born out of marriage, pregnancies, Stis. Risk being caught red handed in the act. Spiritual Life has diminished as well.

STAGE 4: DESPAIR

~ The marriage is under serious threat, sex is not there at home or it is bad if it happens.

~ You can seek help such as Professional Counselling at Kopano Counselling Centre for Sex Addiction Counselling and repent or you can let the cycle continue at times with multiple partners.

~ If nothing is done, divorce is the likely outcome.

~ Shame, finally it's not just your spouse but your children, your family, friends and colleagues know exactly what you did.

~ Emotional and Psychological Harm to children and at times your spouse.

~ You lose on all your Hardwork on marriage.

IMPORTANT TO NOTE:
Shame and embarrassment is common here.
The people who looked at you with respect have lost it. The World knows exactly what you did. Even your kids are embarrassed be a of you.

ALSO NOTE: That cheating remains the major cause of divorce. Also 95% of all Counselling cases sent to this page's inbox involves Cheating either directly or indirectly.

HOW DOES ONE BECOMES A SERIAL CHEATER?

If this pattern is repeated over time, you end up being a serial cheater and possibly sex addict. At this stage, its often difficult to stop, you just sleep with any moving thing. Your Marriage will most likely be taken from you if no intervention is sought. Cheating or Sleeping around is very much addictive.

When the new behaviour (in this case sleeping around) is accepted by the Subconscious Mind as new habit,

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