This story behind this photo put a lump in my throat. Traces of Texas reader Brent Lemons kindly shared this great 1933 snapshot of his dad (holding the dog), his great grandmother, and his uncle, Sonny. Sonny was born with severe cerebral palsy. For his entire life he never talked or walked or used any of his limbs. Despite that, Brent says, he lived all 63 years with a smile on his face. Sonny's mom (Brent's grandmother, who is not shown) cared for him his entire life. Can you imagine that? Devoting 63 years of your life to another person in what must have been all-consuming fashion? I can't fathom the stress, the burden she caried, or the unending and unceasing devotion she had for her son. This was taken in Hart, Texas, which is in Castro county.
Thank you, Brent. A nice photo but an even better story of a Texas mama's love!
The terrifying panic of waking up from an unplanned 4-hour nap at 6:30 p.m., not knowing what year it is, whether you missed a college final exam, or if you are supposed to be eating breakfast or going to sleep.
In 1997, actor John C. McGinley’s son, Max, was born with Down syndrome. Shortly after, John's talent agent pulled him aside to deliver what was framed as practical advice: Do not talk about this publicly. Keep it quiet. People will stop hiring you.
For some, that might have sounded like reasonable career preservation. Protect the livelihood, avoid the spotlight, and pretend nothing had changed.
John’s response was immediate. He fired the agent.
Then, he did the exact opposite of what he had been told. He brought Max everywhere. Red carpets, talk shows, film sets, and public events. Wherever John went, Max was right beside him. At a time when society still largely preferred to keep individuals with developmental disabilities out of sight, John made a different choice. He made his son visible. Openly, proudly, and entirely without apology.
What began as a father's protective instinct grew into decades of fierce advocacy. John became one of the country's most recognizable voices for Down syndrome awareness. He spoke at global conferences, testified before Congress, and fought hard for employment law reforms that created real opportunities for people with disabilities to work, earn, and live independently.
During this journey, a reporter asked John a question that revealed far more about society's biases than it did about Max. The reporter asked if John ever wished his son were normal.
John didn't hesitate. He replied that Max was normal. The question wasn't. It was a blunt rejection of the idea that a person’s worth is measured by how well they fit into a narrow, conventional box.
Decades have passed since that conversation. Max is now 27 years old. He works, navigates his community, and lives an independent life filled with possibilities that the critics in 1997 never could have imagined for him.
Reflecting on their journey, John often says that Max never limited his life. He expanded it. Through his son, he learned what love, patience, and true commitment require.
The world signaled early on that it would have preferred Max to remain hidden in the shadows. John spent nearly three decades ensuring that the world looked Max right in the eye. Some fathers protect their children by shielding them from the world. Others protect them by refusing to let the world look away.
True inclusion begins when we stop treating differences as deficits. Max didn't need to change to fit into the world.
The world needed to change to make room for Max.
She fought hard… and WON!
After battling cancer and losing her hair to treatment, this queen got the best news ever, her CT scan shows No Evidence of Disease. She’s officially cancer-free!
This is what victory looks like. Keep shining, Queen. ❤️
More people need to know that ancient Roman engineering was so precise, their aqueducts still produce clear water to this very day - 2,000 years later.