It's not "marry your best friend, the one true soulmate who alone fits you perfectly, has zero flaws, and only makes you smile."
It's "make the one you marry your best friend, and never stop pursuing their good, their joy, their growth in God, and their heart."
@TerriGreenUSA I like that you used the word necromancy. It reminds me of Saul calling Samuel back from the dead. If people are not careful this can turn into idolatry.
My pastor says preach the word, die, and be forgotten.