Tandaan mo, being kind doesn't mean being weak. Ang kabutihan ay hindi lisensya para abusuhin ka. Kapag natutunan mong magtakda ng hangganan, mas mapoprotektahan mo ang sarili mong kapayapaan at dignidad.
May mga taong akala nila habang mabait ka, pwede ka nilang kontrolin. Akala nila wala kang limitasyon sa pag-unawa at pagpapatawad. Pero kahit ang pinakamabait na tao, napapagod din kapag sobra na.
Psychologically speaking, hindi gumagaling ang taong dini-deny ang sakit.
A person who suppresses pain does not become peaceful.
They become emotionally delayed.
๐๐ก๐๐ง ๐๐๐๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐
Hereโs the part that hits differently.
They were not inactive. They were overactive. Pero somehow, walang satisfaction.
Hindi lahat ng maling ginagawa ng tao ay dahil gusto nilang maging masama.
Minsan may sugat.
Minsan may trauma.
Minsan may insecurity.
Minsan lumaki kang kulang sa pagmamahal kaya buong buhay mo hinahanap mo ito sa maling tao.
Humihingi ng sign kay Lord.
Pero kapag dumating na ang pagkakataong itama ang mali, biglang hindi ready.
Masakit pakinggan, pero minsan hindi tayo natatalo dahil wala tayong choice.
Natatalo tayo dahil ayaw nating harapin ang consequences ng choices natin.
Children remember atmosphere longer than lectures.
And sometimes, the greatest prayer we can offer our families is not:
โLord, make them obedient.โ
But:
โLord, heal what is loud inside me.โ
Healthy families are not families with zero conflict.
Healthy families are families where people apologize.
People repair.
People try again.
People stay accountable.
People grow.
Hindi perfect.
Pero willing mag-heal.
I miss singing&streaming; but until now, my voice isn't totally coming back yet.๐๐๐โน๏ธ
I hope, this bad cough of mine will be gone soon!๐ฅบ๐๐ป
And to my Patreon supporters, I'm afraid that I might not be able to upload a song this coming Friday. Sorry!๐ค๐ฑ
#HoarseVoiceIsReal๐ฅด