This odogwu mentality reminds me of my auntโs husband, who had stroke in the US after years of carrying about 90% of the family responsibilities. Constant work and pressure led to high BP, and now heโs confined to a wheelchair.
As a result, things became extremely toughโฆand my aunt who rarely bothered about the house bills had to double her workload just to keep everything together. Unfortunately, she d!ed last year due to stress.
Husbandโs health might not have deteriorated, and my aunt might still be alive, if they had both given their 100% from the beginning.
When one person carries a home, two people end up paying the priceโฆitโs a matter of time.