@lindz_malindz Well, this is a problem with you. If you want to cheat, cheat but also allow your woman to cheat. If you don't want her to cheat, then you yourself stop cheating. You can't have a standard that applies to you both differently because you are a man and she's a woman.
@lindz_malindz Set an alarm to wake up twice during the night to go and pee and soon you get used to waking up yourself and that's how I helped some people. Like the first alarm at 12 midnight and second at 4am
@lindz_malindz Just move on and find someone new, you don't own your ex and she can make her own independent decisions that don't involve you. There are so many ladies you can date out there