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A month after I first met my wife, she flew from Paris to Valencia to visit me. I wasn’t at the airport to pick her up. I’d asked if that was okay and she said yes. I didn’t know it was actually a big deal to her.
2 months later I took the train from Amsterdam to Paris to visit her there for the first time and she commuted an hour by metro just to meet and welcome me at the train station.
I never needed to be told again.
Two years later we got married, moved to Nancy, and she got an internship at Baker & McKenzie Luxembourg. It was cheaper to keep our French apartment and have her commute by train. She returned every evening at 8:11pm. I was at the train station to welcome her every single day.
I kinda agree some men aren’t worth the asking. But men are not mind readers.
Find someone humble enough to hear what you want, and respond. Then show them what love looks like and watch them learn your language.
You have to ask. The right one listens. And then you stop having to.
I told the guy I was seeing that before we slept together, I wanted both of us to get tested. HIV, hepatitis, syphilis, the full panel. Not because I didn’t like him. Not because I thought he was “dirty.” Just because I value my body and my peace of mind.
We’d been together almost a year. He kept saying he saw a future with me. That I was different. That he respected me.
So I said, “Okay. Then let’s both get tested. I’ll go with you.”
I thought that was mature. Responsible. Normal.
He went quiet.
Then he laughed a little and said, “So you don’t trust me?”
I told him it wasn’t about trust. It was about health. About being adults. About starting something intimate the right way.
He said getting tested “on principle” would mean admitting he’d done something wrong.
That’s when something shifted for me.
Because I wasn’t accusing him of anything. I was offering to do it together. Equal. Transparent. Safe.
Instead of reassurance, he gave me ego.
Instead of care, he gave me pride.
He said, “If you really loved me, you wouldn’t need proof.”
And I realized love isn’t supposed to ask you to risk your health to prove loyalty.
So I said, “If you really loved me, this wouldn’t threaten you.”
He didn’t budge.
So I did.
No more boyfriend.
Today marks the seventh anniversary of the passing of the great Samanyanga, Oliver Mtukudzi.
To commemorate this day, here's my monolization of his South African biggest fan Zinhle's gibberish version of "Madiro."
Rest in Peace, Nzou.
INCONSISTENCY for me is a huge turn off. it’s actually very unattractive too. you can’t make someone feel important one day, and act like they don’t exist the next.
When you make it in life, make sure you send your children to a school in Zimbabwe…
St George’s College in Harare attracts students from all over the world… Order, Discipline, High Quality…. @Malatjie_@Tshepi155034032@Mamhayise123 …