No one talks about how draining it is when your mood is constantly switching between "Its okay, I don't care. I'll be okay" and "I don't know how much more I can take".
Nothing will ruin a relationship for me faster than watching your partner showing up for other people in a way they don't show up for you. You have capacity, just not for our relationship? No thanks. Goes for friendship, too!
Same exact paragraph could be written for women but take out the porn as the cause, and sub it with social media. End of the day this generation is cooked cause both men and women are disgusting pieces of shit 😂😭
Men are lonely because they think they are more attractive and desirable than they actually are. Porn and dating apps have taught them their options are endless, and so they believe they should have access to endless porny-looking chicks. Rather than focusing on and committing to a woman who loves them and is willing to tolerate their many flaws, they refuse to commit, believing they can and should play the field instead
There is a whole generation of men out here who are absolutely exhausted from being the "transitional guy." They come into your life, absorb all the trauma your toxic ex left behind, provide stability, and love you gently. But because your brain is still addicted to chaos, you mistake his consistency for a lack of passion. You drain his peace to heal yourself, and then abandon him because there isn't enough "drama" to keep you entertained. Men are constantly being used as emotional handymen to fix damage they didn't cause, only to be discarded the second the foundation is stable. It is pure emotional vampirism.
If I’m being completely honest, half the things I went through were because of me, my lack of discipline, ignoring my gut feelings, my inability to set boundaries, say NO when necessary, and my poor decision-making.
fuck a break up, have you ever met a person you had a brief but insane connection with and then the universe was like oops wait sorry that wasn't actually supposed to happen