Another thing to be afraid of is a human being proclaiming the “self made” title. That is the most individualistic trait and the most dangerous thing a person could ever possess in their lifetime.🤟🏾
Don’t let them lie to you, time heals if one learns to accept that life was meant to be challenging for us to find lessons in that, therefore growth is guaranteed.
It’s important to vent irrespective of how much you prefer dealing with your problems alone, your loved ones (family,friends) were put into your life for you to show vulnerability without fear of being judged or mocked. Talk there’s always someone who’s willing to listen/help.
I recommend venting it really helps especially when you have someone that's always rational about things, someone that gives out good advice and doesn't sugarcoat things. I hope you find that friend/ loved one, I'm fortunate I have one.Khuluma mntaka baba ungafi nendaba ekudlayo