Lusaka house agents are funny, Kanshi those K500s and K700s they add kuma rentals are theirs? Heard one say when we go and pay kuli ba landlord just pay K3000, and give me the K500. Agents are the ones causing commotion in the search for houses.
My therapist told me
"We need to talk about the trauma of being the 'good kid' who grew up to be the exhausted adult. You spent your entire childhood chasing gold stars, keeping the peace, and making sure you never caused a single inconvenience for the adults around you. You became hyper-vigilant about reading the room, managing everyone else's moods, and burying your own needs so deep you forgot they existed. Now, you're an adult who physically panics at the thought of disappointing a stranger, handles conflict like a death sentence, and feels guilty just for resting. You weren't actually an 'easy' child-you were just a child who learned very early that your safety depended on your compliance. It is time to stop auditioning for everyone else's approval and start learning who you are when you aren't trying to save the day.
The biggest problem we have these days is we have a generation of men that’s just focused on bathing. No serious ambitions, just bathing and getting a fresh haircut every week!
Eventful journey to Mongu.
On the way here just leaving Mumbwa, a woman walks on to the road bawling her eyes out. I smash the breaks and narrowly miss her, she walks past my door and gets in the back, no explanation, no permission…
If you are or you know a Mr Likezo from Itezhi-Tezhi a Memory Sitali claims she’s your daughter. I left her at the Nalusanga gate of the Kafue National Park.
the locals gather around and start “asking” questions. Apparently she’s running away from an abusive step father in Lusaka. Jumped on a bus going to Itezhi-Tezhi with nothing but her purse. She was left in Mumbwa when they realized she couldn’t pay the fare.