Òmòķağbòr

Čreative || Ēntrepreneur || Ğhostwriter || Intrapersonal || COYĞ || DreadĦeaÐ || Trailblazer ||PHYŠČǑ (“psycho”) || ALIGN3D & H3AL3Ð || wear the BALANCE 🧘🏿‍♂️

[Òmòķağbòr @NUGC_]

A lot of adults are walking around with childhood wounds they refuse to heal, then punishing innocent people for what someone else did to them.

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

Poor Man:

* Earns $200 monthly.
* Spends $200 monthly.
* Waits for the next salary.
* Depends entirely on his job for survival.

Smart Man:

* Earns $200 monthly.
* Saves and invests a portion of his salary.
* Builds another source of income.
* Reinvests his profits to grow his wealth.
* Gradually builds financial independence.

[Òmòķağbòr @NUGC_]

Psalm 71:21

[A.O.B @aobolagunju]

Some people are easy to know but difficult to relate with. Friendship requires more than access to someone's personality; it requires the maturity to accommodate another human being.

[King Resilience @kingwizzi_tweet]

My friend sent his younger brother ₦15 million to the UK for a master’s degree.

Two years later, no degree, no updates. The brother was still in Nigeria, running a small pharmacy in the village.

They called a meeting, ready to collect.

He brought out a certificate, not his.

It belonged to their last sister. She had been admitted the same year but the family said girls could wait. He used the money to pay her fees, her hostel, and her upkeep, and told her to keep quiet until she finished.

She walked in wearing her convocation gown.

“I told him not to say anything,” she said. “If you knew, you would have called it waste. He called it balance.”

The brother did not become a master’s graduate.

He became the reason the last child in the house was not left behind.

Some money does not disappear.

It just changes which name is on the certificate.

Shalom.

[Kemi🤎 @TheLowkeyMummy]

Is stay-at-home parenting an outdated luxury or a vital necessity for child development?

[Gilbert @ReflectiveGils]

Society should stop treating divorced women as failures. Sometimes leaving an unhealthy marriage takes more courage than remaining in one.

[Abuja Property Guy @Abdulrasheed_YK]

One thing I keep telling people:

Don't buy land because your friend bought land.

Buy because the location, documentation, purpose, and financial plan make sense.

Property is a serious decision.

[ALHAJI KENNY @KennyMade8737]

Accept rejection bro.
Don't beg.

I REPEAT, DON'T BEG !!!

[Zoe oluwatoyin Adeola @Drzoeoluwatoyin]

𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙧𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙙 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 "𝙂𝙄𝙂𝙊𝙇𝙊 𝙂𝙐𝙔𝙎".

𝙅𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙖𝙨 𝙡𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙚𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙙𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙠 𝙪𝙥, 𝙢𝙚𝙣 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨𝙡𝙮 𝙙𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙠 𝙪𝙥 𝙖𝙨 𝙬𝙚𝙡𝙡.

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

I hate being fat, I start to starve myself once I see that double chin.

[Awelewa 😍🥰❤️ @a4lasade]

She asked her students to dress randomly to work, and the soundtrack perfectly matched the personalities they were portraying.😂
They all understood the assignment! 10/10 across the board. 😂

[Javier Writes @javier_otieno1]

Double standards never double the standards.

[Kéne @AtuanyaKene]

A standard is not a punishment for people who cannot meet it. It’s simply information about what you’re willing to participate in.

[Angee Nosa @Angee75801918]

El Niño, we agreed on global warming, not global refrigeration! Who put Nigeria inside a freezer? 😭😂🥶

[fwmalacyafeez @fwmalacyafeez]

MY HUSBAND HAD A SECOND FAMILY, AND I FOUND OUT AT MY DAUGHTER'S SCHOOL

I never imagined the man I'd shared a bed with for fourteen years was living another life behind my back. If someone had told me my husband was secretly raising another family, I'd have laughed and asked what movie they'd been watching.

My name is Rachel and I live in Houston, Texas. Daniel and I have been married fourteen years, and we have two kids, Sophie, who's twelve, and Noah, who's eight. As far as I knew, we were an ordinary family. Daniel worked in property management, and I ran a small catering business from home.

He was the kind of husband who rarely forgot a birthday. He paid the bills, came to school events when work allowed, and made sure the kids had what they needed. He wasn't perfect, but I trusted him.

My only real complaint was how often he traveled. Some weeks he'd leave on Thursday and get back Sunday, saying he had meetings in Dallas or Austin. I never questioned it. His job was visiting properties, so it made sense.
Everything changed on a Saturday afternoon when I went to Sophie's school for a parents' event.

I was standing near the entrance when a little boy ran past me yelling, "Daddy!"
I turned around and saw Daniel standing next to a woman I'd never seen before. He was holding the boy, kissing his forehead, laughing. At first I thought she might be a coworker or a relative. Then I heard the boy say something that turned my stomach.
"Daddy, are you coming home with us tonight?"
Daniel smiled. "Of course, buddy."
I froze. The woman took Daniel's hand and they walked to their car. He never saw me. I watched them drive off before I even remembered I'd come there for my daughter.

That night I couldn't eat. I kept replaying it in my head.
When Daniel got home Sunday, I asked how the trip went. He smiled and said, "Stressful. I'm glad to be home."
I looked him in the eye and asked, "Do you have another family?"

His smile vanished. For almost a minute he didn't say anything. Then he asked where I'd heard that. I told him I'd seen him with a woman and a little boy at Sophie's school.
Daniel sat down and covered his face with both hands.
Finally he told me the woman's name was Vanessa and the boy was his five-year-old son, Ethan. It had started before our tenth anniversary. He'd been paying for an apartment for them, and most of his business trips were really weekends with them.

I asked how he'd managed to look at me every morning and pretend nothing was going on. He said he was afraid of losing his kids and had planned to tell me someday.
"Someday?" I shouted. "You've had five years to find the courage!"
Then he made it worse. He told me Vanessa knew about me, and that he'd always promised her he'd leave our marriage eventually.

It felt like the floor had dropped out from under me. For years I'd defended Daniel whenever my friends complained about unfaithful husbands. I'd even told my younger sister that not every man is like that. Now I was the one people would be talking about.
I didn't throw his clothes on the lawn or scream at him. I just told him to sleep somewhere else while I figured out what to do.

The hardest part was telling Sophie and Noah that their dad and I were having serious problems. Sophie cried and asked if he was leaving because of something she'd done.
That question broke me.

A few days later Daniel showed up with flowers and said he'd end things with Vanessa and wanted to save our marriage. But I had one question for him: if I hadn't seen him at that school, how many more years would he have kept lying to me?
He had no answer.

I'm staying with my sister now while I decide what comes next. Some people tell me to forgive him because of the kids. Others say a man who can hide a whole family for five years can never be trusted again.

What I keep coming back to is that little boy calling my husband Daddy. He's innocent in all this, just like my own children

[A.O.B @aobolagunju]

The danger of always seeking approval is that you may eventually need permission to live your own life.

[Dubem 🦅 @DubemEmeka]

His name was Osas. He was based in Benin. Everybody knew Osas. He was a small boy. He had no job. He had no shop. He was just doing Yahoo Yahoo small small, but he was not cashing out. He was always complaining that his mates were driving big cars, wearing big clothes, building houses, but him, he was still trekking.

One day, Osas disappeared. Nobody saw him for two weeks. When he came back, he came back different. He came back with big car. He came back with plenty money. He started spending money like water. He bought land. He bought house. He bought iPhone for everybody. People were asking, "Osas, what happened? Where did you get this money?

[TURU_UGO_LỌTA 🦅 @_ejikeme]

If you keep saving a friend from the consequences of their choices, eventually their problems become yours.

[Mr Kingsley @mrkingsley1987]

You can't continue to say negative things about YOU and at the same time expect something wonderful to come your way. It's just doesn't work that way. So today speak positively about you and see wonders happen in your life.

[Gilbert @ReflectiveGils]

A man who knows how to manage a small income is developing habits that can serve him when he earns more.