It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.
As an overthinker, reassurance is my love language. Sometimes it’s just saying, ‘I’m not going anywhere,’ and actually living like you mean it. Love makes people happy, but reassurance makes them feel safe and safety is everything.
Some men lose good women because they treat relationships like everything has to make sense to them. “I don’t have to buy flowers to prove I love you.” Maybe not… but if your woman likes flowers, buy them. If she enjoys going on dates, take her out. Relationships aren’t just about what matters to you. Sometimes it’s about showing up for what matters to the person you love.