I wonder how many autistic children go undiagnosed because their parents are undiagnosed autistics who don’t see anything atypical or out of the ordinary about their child and think everyone experiences what they do but just muddles through?
@HowtoADHD ADHD is what makes me me. I can hyperfocus and power through mountains of work that my NT colleagues can’t comprehend. It was my secret to getting through law school and career successes. I can dig deep and find energy to accomplish massive tasks and rest when they are done.
“Autistic people can’t feel empathy”.
Me: *feels the physical, mental and emotional pain of other people, animals and objects deep within my soul, such that I feel like I am experiencing their plight alongside them and wish I could fix everything and take all of our pain away*.
ADHD is like 50% not working, 50% working frantically to make up for the not working part, 50% thinking about the work I should be doing (but not actually working), and 50% not sleeping (but trying to).
@ItsEmilyKaty I see this as a double-empathy issue. I think that autistic imagination doesn't look the same as neurotypical imagination, so neurotypicals think we can't do it because we aren't doing it "right"
I think autistic imagination is governed more by rules and reality at a younger age
The autistic pipeline of wondering why you always miss the mark to realising that you don’t even like the mark, and would rather find your own focal point.
I wish “I’m autistic” could be a valid and convincing explanation for knowing something that others don’t. Most people have little faith in an autist’s expert knowledge, unique powers of deduction and astute logical analysis - even when said autist has a success rate of 99%.
My autistic literal interpretation means that I tend to see “yes” and “no” responses as sacred, firm and non-negotiable. If someone says they don’t want food, I don’t think to immediately offer it again. If someone offers to help, I expect that they will honour that commitment.