I earnestly hope you have the opportunity one day to sit in a sunlit room with a baby in your arms, gently rocking in an old wooden chair.
I have traveled the world, climbed mountains, and had adventures I dare not tell you about.
This, however, is the peak.
Nothing is more attractive than a Secure man with no sneaky stuff, no extra females, no inconsistency, no drama, A man who is expressive about his feelings for you, gentle with you, makes you feel safe & loved. a man who still has same level of respect & love during bad terms >
Jokes aside, I think people should really be more focused on the minor acts of love / care when picking a partner. A partner that won’t make you feel bad / uncomfortable in your humanness; snoring, hair, sickness, fluids, depression, grief. So important when partnering forever.
I am DISGUSTED that Trump would pick RFK for HHS.
Our government has been doing a FANTASTIC job collaborating with Big Pharma to foster a healthy society and efficient healthcare system.
WHY are we trying to destroy their progress????
President Trump has asked me to do three things:
1. Clean up the corruption in our government health agencies.
2. Return those agencies to their rich tradition of gold-standard, evidence-based science.
3. Make America Healthy Again by ending the chronic disease epidemic.
So many women are with me right up to the point where I suggest that maybe their abusive ex isn’t mentally ill, he didn’t have NPD, he isn’t a ‘psychopath’ - maybe he’s a man living in a misogynistic, pornified society who uses and abuses women because he likes it and it’s celebrated.
Cos let’s face it, it’s a lot easier for women to label their exes and abusers as mentally disordered narcissistic psychopaths than it is to realise that we live in a world that supports and celebrates his vile attitudes, his behaviour towards women and his porn obsession.
It makes more sense to believe he’s a one-off, he’s evil, he’s disordered, he’s psycho - than to have to look at the world and think;
‘Well shit, there are millions of men like that dude and they are objectifying and abusing women left, right and centre. He’s no different.’
It’s a real shame that’s where they switch off, because that’s where the real work needs to be done. If we reframe every abusive ex as mentally ill, they get to use that too - and they get to claim that they can’t help it, and they need help and support from the woman/others.
The amount of women who have been abused for years who then say ‘but it wasn’t his fault, he’s got bipolar, he’s got PD, and everyone around me kept saying I needed to support him and not push his buttons and be more understanding’
HELL NO.
Your ex was abusive because:
1. He enjoyed it
2. He wanted to
3. He got something personal out of it
4. There are no societal or personal consequences to his behaviour
That’s it.