Grow yourself in the way you need

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The cost of winning is loss after
loss after loss after loss,
continuous losing until you finally
fucking win. And that is why a
winner will always lose more than a
loser ever will.

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Here's how you know someone is highly intelligent. It's not their degrees, it's this. It's what led Oscar Wilde to say that consistency is the last refuge of the unimaginative. What he meant by that was that highly intelligent people know how to change their minds. Watch for them to say something like this. They say things like, "I used to think," or, "That's a good point. Let me reconsider." Most people double down to protect their ego, but intelligent people update their beliefs. They get more curious instead of more defensive, and they ask things like, "What am I missing?" instead of trying to win an argument. They don't tie their identity to being right, and they treat being wrong like data, not humiliation. Albert Einstein also recognized this and said that the measure of intelligence is the ability to change. So here's the real flex. Being able to say, "I've changed my mind," without shame.

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@RaminNasibov It sound weird but I don't remember a boring time in the past.

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I love this quote:
"No matter your age,
you'll always wish you
started younger, but
today is the youngest
9,800
you'll ever be.
126
So start today."

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If tomorrow your family was taken hostage and locked in a basement, and the captors said they’d only release them once you started earning ten thousand dollars a month, you would suddenly act with a level of fury and relentless drive you’ve never shown before. You’d hunt for opportunities with a power and intensity you didn’t even know you had.
This reveals an uncomfortable truth: You don’t have a knowledge problem. You have a comfort problem. What you’re missing isn’t motivation — it’s real consequences. You lack the painful “or else” that comes with not following through.
Until you set the stakes high enough that failing to reach your goal genuinely scares you, nothing will change. You’ll stay stuck at the same level.

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You don't have to work. Simple. If you don't wanna work, you need to have something work on your behalf, and that's called investments. So the reason you're working or you need to work is because no one in your entire family history got financially literate, learned how to invest, invested, then handed down the investments to you and said, "Keep it going. You don't need to work. The investments will fund your lifestyle." No one in your family history did that, so that's why you need to work. It's not their fault. Nine out of ten people don't care about money, and so they don't have any money. And more than likely, you won't care about money either, so if you decide to have kids, they'll wonder why they have to work. It's because no one before them cared about money. If you want a chance of not working, then you need to invest. If you don't invest, that means you want to work. You will need to work.

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Intelligent people learn from everything and everyone. Average people, they learn from their own experiences. And stupid people, they already have all the answers.

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It just a movie, but, think about...

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@KarolineGosling They are goes to gym for finding a man there.

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The biggest mistake intelligent people make is assuming that everyone else has a conscience, too. They truly believe that if they wouldn’t betray anyone, they won't be betrayed in return; that if they are honest, no one would ever lie to them; that if they are always willing to help, they will be helped back.
​But that’s just not how the world works.
​Most people operate on a simple principle: if it’s convenient, I’ll take it; if it’s not, I’ll discard it. There’s no conscience involved. That is precisely why intelligent people often end up taking the hardest hits—they spend so much time refusing to believe a simple reality: not everyone is playing by the same rules you are.

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@MeetMattL This is a point

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@prrobbins It's a sitting issue plus stress

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Animals shed stress in minutes, while you bottle it up for years. Here is why that happens and how to fix it.
​Animals release stress immediately after it occurs. You never do. And that is the problem. After a stressful event, cortisol literally gets stuck in your body. Your muscles stay tensed, and your nervous system gets stuck in "pause" mode.
​Here is what you need to do right now. It will take two minutes.
​Stand up and start shaking your hands, as if you are shaking off water. Just like that. Gradually involve your arms, your shoulders, and then your whole body. Move chaotically, without trying to control it.
​Stop! Freeze.
​What do you feel?
​This is called a somatic release. It literally deactivates the sympathetic nervous system and flushes out the cortisol.

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@oitixion Indeed. It like this on the roads.

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@NightSkyToday ...and human hand holding phone...