Nina

she.her.hers

[Nina @NeensBeans]

“To whom do I owe the biggest apology? No one’s been crueler than I’ve been to me.”

[Nina @NeensBeans]

@tessthemessssss This is important information from someone who also has Crohn’s disease….

[Nina @NeensBeans]

Sorry, I’m still not at home in my body

[Del Lusional @Del_Lusionalx]

The one who saved my life and stomped the shooter’s face in was not a drag queen, she is a trans woman. Let’s not call trans women drag queens during this time of grieving over a transphobic attack.

[Fascinating @fasc1nate]

High winds at the perfect time of day created a previously undocumented 2,400-foot rainbow waterfall in Yosemite National Park

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

5. Take Everything Personally: feels personally attacked easily. Unable to put their ego aside to have a vulnerable emotional connection because of a fragile sense of self.

Ex: “maybe life would be easier for you if I wasn’t around!”

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

4. Black and White Thinking: attempts to fine safety by having inflexible ideas, opinions, and belief. Has little/no tolerance of other people’s opinions.

Ex: “that’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard”

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

3. Everything centers around their emotions: everything is brought back to themselves and how they feel father than validating or being curious about the other persons inner world.

Ex: You share how you feel & the response is: “oh well imagine how I FEEL!”

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

2. Dismissive of Feelings: invalidates, denies, or tries to change the ways person feels in attempt to make themselves more comfortable

Ex: “you’re so sensitive.” “guess you can’t take a joke” “why did you take it that way?”

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

1. Highly Defensive: unable to listen to another persons thoughts or feelings without becoming defensive.

Ex: “oh I guess I’m just a terrible person!”

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

By understanding a persons level of emotional maturity, we can choose how we engage with them.

HERE’S 5 CORE SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL IMMATURITY 🧵:

[Chase Anderson, MD, MS (K.C. Ardem) 🦸🏽‍♂️🏳️‍🌈 @ChaseTMAnderson]

Every day in America since 2016: https://t.co/iuk1BnlCyi

[Pickle @mpickle]

If you sleep less than 7 hours a night, read this:

[Nina @NeensBeans]

@betsysaidwhat When my wife and I had COVID (12/2020) we only started to recover 14+ days after first symptoms. It was awful. I have long COVID but it took a long time to diagnose and lots of specialists. I hope you turn the corner soon and feel better every day ❤️

[Nina @NeensBeans]

And she might not understand now, but I do. And I won’t forget.

[Nina @NeensBeans]

It is not our responsibility to ensure that you spend time with our daughter. If you want to see her, we’ll make it happen. If you don’t make the effort, we won’t chase you. Just don’t be surprised when she doesn’t know who you are. She deserves consistency in her relationships.

[Nina @NeensBeans]

It’s trying but I’m trying

[Nina @NeensBeans]

@urcoolermom YOU know your body best!!! Don’t forget it

[Nina @NeensBeans]

@urcoolermom Smart! Advocate for yourself mama. These docs don’t give a fuck.