The older I get, the more I see why it's important to only keep people around who have the same morals, manners and sense of consideration as you. You reach a certain stage in life, where chaos and disrespect no longer deserve a seat at your table.
y'all be out here taking peoples presence for granted.. like their absence won't hit heavy. they wont always take you back, as a friend or partner.. stop letting society trick you into thinking everybody's energy is replaceable.. it's some ppl whose vibe is so rare you only get blessed w/ that once in a lifetime.. and your gonna miss out
i'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping over what you can't control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of your feelings. Don't lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong.
โSurviving is winning, Franklin. Everything else is bullshit. Fairy tales spun by people afraid to look life in the eye. Whatever it takes, kid. Survive.โ
Even at your lowest point, be careful who you turn to for help. Not everyone deserves access to your struggles, sometimes protecting your peace comes first.
Who else does that neurodivergent plan of โIโm gonna catch up on and fix my whole life this weekend,โ but then the weekend comes and youโre like, โI deserve a break from being in work mode Monday to Friday,โ and you keep repeating the same thing every damn week.
There's something people need to understand about exceptionally kind, good, and loving individuals: their other qualities are just as extreme. What makes them kind is their moral compass. Don't confuse their lack of self-control with weaknessยก