Nick Notas

🔻I help smart men be more confident & attractive
🔻Healthy advice from 15 years of coaching
🔻Compassionately direct
Free attraction course & tips👇

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@boardyai @andrewdsouza building Nick Notas Coaching as an executive relationship advisory for high-earning men in tech and finance looking to navigate communication, conflict, and major relationship milestones. would love to get Boardy Pro

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What if the reason you’re still alone is…you https://t.co/dP49CUMOJo

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Lead Gently
Challenge Kindly
Embrace Flirting
RESPECT BOUNDARIES DAMN IT
Sit Closer
Stop Waiting
Kiss Them Already!
Dare Greatly
Own Yourself

What would you add to this list?

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My dating reminders:

Speak Honestly
Listen Intently
Ask Meaningfully
Stay Curious
Share Passions
Compliment Thoughtfully
Show Vulnerability
Remain Independent
Call Them
Act Decisively

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Unless you want to stay “just friends” with women, you’ll need to get physical on dates.

The key is knowing WHEN to touch them naturally & respectfully.

In this video, I’ll teach you my foolproof traffic light system to make a move with confidence. https://t.co/2xFLg084LG

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The right person isn't sitting there judging your text messages. They're too busy smiling at seeing your name pop up on their screen.

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Want more sex with your girlfriend?

Do the dishes or vacuum the house.

Seriously, it works—you're underestimating how much that'll get you laid.

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The secret to social confidence?

You have to like yourself first.

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Struggling to talk to new people?

I used to feel invisible, terrified of real-world connections. I hid behind a screen until I was 19.

Now? I chat with anyone, anywhere — and I love it. 👇

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When you’re willing to be seen — truly seen — everything changes.

The moment you accept that some might judge you (and that’s okay), you can finally look others in the eyes as equals.

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Sometimes I think, "Why don't kids today listen to REAL music? Like when OutKast was dropping bangers like Ms. Jackson."

Then it hits me: that was 25 years ago.

That's like me complaining in 2000 that no one was bumping Captain & Tennille and John Denver. 😂

Damn, I’m ancient.

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When you chase someone who doesn't invest in you, you've already lost.

Because without their respect, you don't have anything.

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Politeness is effortless and its impact is priceless. So what’s your excuse?

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If not, then the real problem isn’t them — it’s your avoidance.

I know these conversations can feel scary, but even a messy, imperfect talk beats suffering in silence. (4/4)

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Blaming your partner for something they don’t know they’re doing…

is like yelling at your dog for not understanding algebra. (1/4)

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The irony is that we spend more energy being upset about what’s unsaid than it would take to have an honest conversation.

Instead of letting resentment build, ask yourself, “Have I actually told them what’s bothering me?” (3/4)

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Ask yourself: Would your partner feel hurt if they knew?

Honesty is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. Secrets are what erode the foundation.

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Emotional cheating is still cheating.

If you're hiding conversations from your partner...

You're already balls deep in an affair. 👇

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Cheating doesn’t always start with big actions -- it often begins with small secrets.

If you’re lying about where you are or feeling guilty about spending time with someone else, take a moment to reflect.