i hate poverty so much.
It turns you into a people pleaser. You avoid conflict because you can't afford to lose access, help, opportunities.
It makes you overexplain. You feel the need to justify your existence, choices, or mistakes , it shuts you up.
@kigothor1 But si these men are innocent. I mean their mothers made the decision to omit their dads names, when they were toddlers and have no much say in that. So are we not being unfair to these men.