Sec Yellen is right. The US can afford two wars. We can afford 4 wars. The US could also afford universal healthcare, a job guarantee, end to poverty. The question of what we can afford is not a real one. The only question, and the only thing that matters, is what we prioritize.
The sex you're having is only as interesting, authentic, and passionate as you are. Most people are just fucking and not having full body/mind experiences. People are terrified to give intimacy but want to receive it. People think they're sexually satisfied but they're actually thriving on attention and being 'chosen'. Sex is often treated like a finish line or a bandaid, currency, or a hit of drugs, instead of a communicative and bonding experience that it should be.