ECCLESIASTES 10verse 19:A feast is made for laughter,wine makes life merry and MONEY is the answer to everything. Get rich or die tryin'! Dj Ndox (òÓړ)
The hardest pill for women to swallow is that average men love us far more unconditionally than we love them. A regular guy making a standard wage will gladly date a woman with zero income, pay for her meals, and support her dreams without ever making her feel inadequate. But the exact second an average-earning man loses his job or hits a financial rough patch, a massive percentage of women instantly lose respect and look for an exit. We demand unconditional loyalty, but only offer conditional love.
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself
The older you get, the more you realize luck is mostly exposure. If you sit in the same place, have the same routine, talking to the same people, nothing new really happens. You have to engage the world to win. Travel more. Talk to people.
Young men,
Forget the clubs, the alcohol, and chasing baddies. Work on yourself instead.
In your 30s, the power dynamics shift in your favor, but only if you’ve actually built something for yourself.
The bar is so incredibly low. If you can muster even the faintest modicum of agency every day for just a few years, you will easily propel yourself into the top decile for your age on every dimension that matters.
In life competing with people is like racing every car that passes.
You don’t know where the car is going but you wanna drive faster it.
To where? you don’t know, you dont even know the driver 🤷🏽♂️
Stick to ya lane & do you boo 🤞🏽
You work hard , Save money & deprive yourself of nice things hoping to have funds for the future.
Then die without enjoying life leaving everything behind .
Basically : Learn to create a balance , save funds but also enjoy some of your money 🩶
Major cheat code for life: Become brutally honest with yourself. About your habits. Your effort. Your excuses. Your blind spots. Self-honesty is uncomfortable, but it'll save you years of wasted time. You can’t fix what you keep lying about.
Shyness will cost you millions over your lifetime. Every conversation you avoid. Every opportunity you miss. Every deal you don’t ask for. Learn to be bold or end up broke.
Nobody talks about the late 30s to 40s personality shift, where you no longer want to be impressive. You want to be more rested, reserved, and completely unavailable to anything that draining.
Make peace with fact that some of your friends will level up , some will soon feel like they’re “above your league” & treat you as such .
Release & let them ❤️, love them from a distance if need be , ke life ntwana , learn to adjust 👌🏽
it is really baffling how much lifting heavy weights for 30 minutes a week literally makes every single thing about your life better instantly. i cannot believe i spent so many years of my life not doing this. i wish someone had screamed at me to do this sooner
It’s an elite mindset to live like everything is going to work out. Not necessarily being blindly optimistic, but just knowing whatever happens, you’ll figure it out
Your entire life will change the day you realize discipline is the highest form of self-respect. It’s choosing what you want most over what you want now. It’s keeping your word. It’s an act of service to your future self.
I remember the day I decided to stop acting broke in an abundant universe. My bank account said one thing, but I chose to feel rich anyway. I tipped extra, ordered the dessert, breathed like someone who gets paid to exist. That was the 1st time I truly realized money doesn’t respond to logic, it responds to frequency & now I’m seeing what happens when you live that truth every single day.