A person doesn’t have to only drain you with arguments & fights. They can drain you with lack of communication, lack of trust, lack of empathy, lack of apologizing, lack of acknowledgment & lack of fulfilling your love language.
@hy_wemmy no its not that… people with the biggest hearts still have to go through the test to see if they choose the one who will destroy them or they are patient and disciplined to remove the toxic out of their life until they receive what they deserve.
I'm actively trying to unlearn every toxic trait within me. Ion want to argue, be disrespectful, act cold or question love. i want to be emotionally intelligent, gentle and intentional w my person.
"Staying in a relationship JUST because you love somebody is not worth it. Love IS NOT all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A best friend is what you need."
when i say IM RARE i mean that.. & im not talking about my looks! im talking about the way i love, how understanding i am, my mindset, how supportive i am, my aura, energy & who i am as a person. you fumble me you'll feel that sht for life..
You don’t need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fuck up, & actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time shit gets real.