IN LOVING MEMORY OF MY DEAREST PARENTS 🕊️
Today as I stand on the threshold of this milestones, I want to take a moment to honor the two of you 💔who have made it possible for me to be alive. As I walk across this stage, I'm filled with emotions, happiness, gratitude and love.
I asked HR for a week off because my mother is in the ICU. She denied it since I already used all my days off.
When I insisted, HR said, “She’ll die anyway, don’t risk your job.” I ignored her. They fired me for taking an “unapproved vacation.”
But next day everyone froze when
Tomorrow is Thursday.
Fast if you are able to, if not earn reward by reminding others.
Remind, for indeed, the reminder benefits the believers (Q51:55).
Baarakallahu Feekum.
School of Nursing (RN)
School of Midwifery (RM)
Postgraduate Diploma in Education (PGCert)
BSc in Nursing
MSc Healthcare Management and Leadership
PhD in Nursing
Lecturer, Nursing Education and Administration
Associate Professor of Nursing
Dean, College of Nursing Science
Let me give five:
1. We can’t go to bed keeping malice with each other. Any issue we have must be talked out, and efforts made toward resolving it the same day. We must communicate properly. If you feel hurt or offended, do not go about carrying a face and keeping malice, hoping I will figure it out. Address all grievances, and the offending party should apologize.
2. We must leave food and sex out of our quarrels. No matter what the issue is, always serve me my food. Even if we don’t get to eat together like we used to in loved-up days, keep my food on the table, I will eat it. There will be no rejecting of food from me or denying me food from you. The same applies to sex.
3. When we have issues, there should be no involving third parties. We must make conscious efforts to fix things ourselves. Involving third parties should only be the last resort when the issues have gone beyond us, then we can involve our parents or other respected people in our lives.
4. No quarreling outside, in front of the kids, or raising our voices to the extent that our neighbors can hear us. We must keep up appearances in public and always quietly resolve our issues.
5. We will always maintain a united front when disciplining the kids. I won’t tell them no video games today and you will start pleading in front of them, making me appear like the bad person.
If your husband can fill 12.5kg cooking gas.,buy crates of eggs... subscribe cable TV, buy data and fuel generator in this present condition of Nigeria...
Madam please give that man some REAL PEACE OF MIND.
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.