Trezer Odero

Loves nature

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Friday Morning 🤗

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#AsegoPinyMaber

[Cerullo @nyakwaratuko]

Homa Bay is scenic

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@wario_xy The views around this place are breathtaking 🥰

[kokii🦋 @kokiimichii]

The truth that most men don’t know is , most women know within the first conversation or interaction whether you’re someone they’d even consider dating, we just sense energy, confidence , masculinity …everything . The rest is just getting to know whether the first impression was right or wrong .

[Abdikadir @Khamenei68]

Morning friends 🌞#farmtwitter

[Here we go! @DaviesKinanga]

Kericho is beautiful 😍🔥

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

You'll never build a stable home with someone who drinks alcohol every weekend and prioritizes friends. Don't even waste your time!

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Friday afternoon stretch💐
#wecatchviewsonly

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@SMusilakimeu We are finally winning 🤗

[Arnaud Bertrand @RnaudBertrand]

As someone who partially grew up among European elite kids like him, this reminds me just how incredibly hollow some of them are.

For a quick background, I went to one of the poshest high schools in France (Janson de Sailly, for those who know) and, afterwards, to what was at the time - and probably still is - the most expensive undergraduate school in Europe (EHL in Lausanne, Switzerland).

Needless to say, many of my classmates were from unbelievably privileged backgrounds. Just in my classroom in Lausanne I had the son of a (very famous) Russian oligarch, the son of Italy's largest real estate developer and the son of Spain's largest real estate developer (funnily, the latter two were flat mates).

Another classmate of mine came from the richest family in Naples, Italy and - while we were at school - his father (known in Naples under the nickname "Il Sultano") got arrested for having bribed half of Naples's city council - which, if you know Naples, ought to tell you something.

These were the kids I was doing group projects on business ethics with (literally) 😅

Anyhow, my story, and probably my luck, was that - before going to high school in Paris - I was raised in very normal public schools in the South of France where my friends were anything but wealthy. Their parents were farmers and everyday workers.

Which means - and I'd come to realize this was very important in life - that it was easy for me to understand how big a mistake it is to see money as identity and meaning - and to confuse someone's net worth with their actual worth.

What really struck me at the time was the contrast with my "poor" classmates of earlier in my life. They couldn't define themselves by what they had - by definition - and this forced them to reach deeper for their identity: their skills, knowledge, humor, etc.

Rich kids can skip that entire process, and the tragedy is that most of them do: they reach for the readymade identity that money provides. I remember being incredibly frustrated by many of my classmates, like "ok, I get it, your dad is rich and you own a lot of nice things but who are YOU, what else is there?" The answer, more often than not, was nothing.

To be fair, there were exceptions. One of my classmates I was most impressed by came from one of Zurich's wealthiest families (which, if you know Zurich, means insanely wealthy) yet he was almost OCD in not showing he had money: driving the shittiest car imaginable, living in a small studio, etc. He was very intellectual, very contrarian, and clearly at war with the idea that his family's wealth ought to define who he was.

I only discovered who he actually was when I started my first company and he approached me to invest: to discuss the investment I went to one of his family homes, which it turned out was a literal palatial castle on the shores of Geneva lake. The guy had decided to live in a small rundown studio when he literally had a castle sitting empty a 5-min drive away.

THAT I was impressed by: it's easy to see that money isn't meaning when you don't have any. To see it when you have more than almost anyone - when everyone around you is organized around the opposite assumption - is much harder. But to actually live it, to choose the studio when you have the castle keys in your pockets - with no audience to applaud you for that - that shows real depth.

At the end of the day, I think, the real distinction isn't between rich and poor but between people who exist from the inside out and people who exist from the outside in.

Wealth just happens to make it incredibly easy to be the latter, to skip the work of becoming someone and settle for a borrowed identity that glitters from the outside but is hollow all the way through. A Potemkin village identity.

This is actually a real societal issue, and magnified by social media (with idiotic posts like this one 👇): the more "outside in" folks out there, the less people with genuine internal anchors, the more fragile everything becomes.

When you think about it, everything that genuinely matters in a society is built by people who think for themselves: they take the world in, pass it through something genuinely their own, and give back something that didn't exist before: an idea, a conviction, a stand.

Every reform, every invention, every act of moral courage in history came from someone with an internal anchor strong enough to resist the current. Remove those people and all you have left is the current.

This isn't new, by the way. Most ancient traditions warn against exactly this, from the Bible (the golden calf story) to Confucius, who built his entire ethics around the distinction between the exemplary person (the Junzi, 君子) - oriented around internal cultivation and righteousness - and the petty person (Xiaoren, 小人), oriented around profit and gain. The junzi builds himself from the inside, the xiaoren chases what's outside.

So please, do not make the mistake of being impressed by wealthy people flaunting their wealth. Don't focus on the glitter, focus on the hollowness it's trying to hide.

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@MarrioneKe Night falling again with a hope of better tomorrow

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@MarrioneKe We went again and so tomorrow

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@Judykariuk6921 Wangu nikimuuliza ako aje ananiambia aliniambia jana, yeye si kibwagizo😂😂

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Epic👌

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Scouting for bliss🥰✨️
@Saturdays

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@Osuta_Snr @BVyppah @d_danteh_ @DaviesKinanga @drramyamurali @ezekielkipsesat @Khamenei68 @IAmOtina @6 This has given me a reason to be up early, just to enjoy this view😍

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@engEzrah Unezataka mtu wa kuvuna😂

[Eric @amerix]

We always talk here about predatory and manipulative women, but we can also talk about uncouth men.

There is a breed of men out there who are lazy and unproductive.

Most of these men are mama's boys. They are still stuck in their mother's breasts.

Some of these men get very good women but mistreat these women, abuse them, borrow their money and refuse to refund.

These men spend most of their time playing video games, betting, watching Netflix, pornography and masturbating.

Their houses are extremely dirty.

They cannot cook. They cannot clean their kitchen. They cannot iron their clothes. They cannot polish their shoes even taking a bath is a Herculean task for them.

They are FAT.

They eat like pigs.

They smoke like a chimney.

They drink like fish.

Their women put up with so much filth and bulshit from these men.

When this kind of man disagrees with his woman, he begins mentioning Amerix.

"Even Amerix said"

"Amerix said I am the prize"

"Amerix said I stay Taliban"

You are not the Prize if you are lazy.

You are not the prize if you are not providing.

We do not condone lazy and unproductive men.

Most of these men are always on Twitter scrolling politics, abusing politicians and tweeting mindless memes and jokes.

Stop this nonsense.

Grow up!

You are the reason women are bitter and angry because women are naturally loyal followers. They desperately want a man who will lead her, give her direction and make decisions for her.

But you are an uncouth man who has no job, no interest in looking for a job, no interest in learning a skill but because your woman is working courtesy of her parents' efforts, you borrow her money all the time. Money that you never refund.

"Hi, babe. Kindly send me 1K, I will refund you tomorrow. There is a deal coming up"

Then he gambles this money or buys alcohol.

Men,

A good woman is a good woman. Don't turn her into a feminist because of your irresponsibility and backwardness.

These men are like this because of their poor upbringing, especially being pampered by their mothers.

That's why I keep insisting that if you are a father, be tough with your son. Don't entertain laziness and comfort.

Your son will grow up to be the most useless human being on earth if you don't get tough.

Do not allow his mother to feminize him. Continuously pump masculine energy into your son.

Good women who are ready to submit deserve good men.

These uncouth men are the type that is waiting for their parents to die so that they inherit the 3-bedroom house in the city, the old rusty Peugeot car and the non-performing general shop where he picks bread and milk on credit every morning.

Don't be this kind of man.

Be a good man.

Grow up!

#MasculinitySaturday

[Trezer Odero @OderoTrezer]

Word!

[Eric @amerix]

Most people around you want you to fail,

They expect that when you fail,

• You will join them in their miserable lives,

Or,

• They will inherit your position so that they can succeed like you.

But if you don't meet their expectations of failure, they become even angrier and more hateful towards you for no reason,

Your growth and progress annoy them when you refuse to be the failure they expect.

Your discipline and determination to succeed angers them.

They will even become vengeful when you refuse to listen to their mockery and insults.

Such people cannot go far in life,

They will remain insufferable,

They will remain stagnant because their minds are full of mould as a result of jealousy, and their hearts are coated with thick black soot due to unnecessary hate towards a person who is just minding his business and has not done anything wrong towards them.

The only mistake you made is that you chose to pursue your purpose with discipline, order and consistency.

That is what irks them.

Refuse to accept their mockery and insults.

Focus.

In the end, you will win.