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[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@AllcrownArc @jon_d_doe The idea is none of them should, rather take in an outsider. So when things goes south you can hold them accountable without emotions. And to create boundaries

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@Ayoelesho You indirectly giving them the edge, once they know, men won't retaliate, the will capitalize on it cause, they know they will be free of any consequences.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@caleb_id_ @jon_d_doe Best way to put this

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@SM_TechB3aute We'll selfish as long it benefit us.
If the person agrees, so be it.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@henrie_nonye @MaxwellMut86249 @keriashuga @jpattueyi Nothing unfortunate its happening to the child especially if he/she is little to have basic understanding..
The child isn't the man's, thus withdraw, the actual parent takes the responsibility except the man what to continue.
Now you shifting goal post.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@henrie_nonye @MaxwellMut86249 @keriashuga @jpattueyi Cause it's my gender who was lied to, given the responsibilities that wasn't his, betrayed. So basically the child is part.
You can't take it away.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@Skilapopo_CWT @HeDontMakeNoise The cause of the fight is due him not agreeing to marry, there daughter. So even if he was doing, his fatherly duty. They still won't like him cause traditionally, he refuse to take their daughter hence a stain to the family.
Hope you see from that angle ?

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@henrie_nonye @MaxwellMut86249 @keriashuga @jpattueyi Now you flipping to a gender thing. Come on.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@onlyone_success Mehn

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@jon_d_doee She didn't say what lead to the situation, so how we suppose to help her situation?

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@Skilapopo_CWT @HeDontMakeNoise Do you know if he was a deadbeat ?
Do you think, he would have had the guts if he hasn't been active in the child's life prior to the woman demise ?
At this point, I don't even get your point.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@henrie_nonye @MaxwellMut86249 @keriashuga @jpattueyi The child is a product of the problem, the problem remains the woman. Trust is broken, heart is broken it takes a willed person to say he wants to further build his relationship with the child, cause it was built on lies initially.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@Skilapopo_CWT @HeDontMakeNoise He isn't snatching his child, it's his. His taking his child and if he was a deadbeat that a different case if he wasn't he has all right towards the child. And it's the family that should be negotiating with him not the other way round.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@obaleke_ One comes with responsibilities and the other is meant to take care of responsibilities.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

When some feminist wannabe say treat everyman as a potential rapist, we vexed.

Like see the thinking

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

"Sexualizing your sister"

Are you people actually stupid like this or this is your original thought? You don't know the meaning of boundary? Is this how your female family members send you breasts?

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@henrie_nonye @jpattueyi Except he want to acknowledge the child as his legally

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@henrie_nonye @jpattueyi Men don't deny pregnancy on marriage, everyone knows you married and if that case of denial happen. There's more to it.
Don't shift goal post, men accuse infidelity cause they are scare of responsibility if he scared, he would either run or not even marry.
No, he isn't anymore.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@henrie_nonye @jpattueyi Not anymore, when the child is not biologically his.

[Wale @Ohizpaul2]

@henrie_nonye @jpattueyi I am not. Rather you keep dismissing the man welfare and agreeing to subjecting more pains upon him forcely despite the betrayal.
If he wants to continue playing a role, it should be voluntarily not made compulsory.