My mom died when I was 17. I only have a handful of pictures and zero videos of her. A couple years ago, on my birthday, I got a text from a number I didn’t recognize. It simply said “happy birthday” with a YouTube link. I clicked it and my heart stopped. It was my mom.
I had to pull over immediately. She was telling me how proud she was of me and how she wondered what I’d become. Maybe a policeman, a preacher, or even a clown. I couldn’t believe it.
Well, it turns out the random phone number was my friend Jon’s dad, who had found this video on an old VHS tape they made before a 1999 school event. I was 16.
This experience got me thinking... what if we could have one last conversation with someone we lost?
🚛 The Crossing Over Express is now on @X 👻
@pernilleripp@korytellers As I continued to be on time, I was told I should have my kids (single parent) picked up afternoons by a daycare so I could work late, and as I couldn’t afford that, I should get a second job to cover it.
@pernilleripp@korytellers I was put on an improvement plan for being “too close to the deadline” for getting SpEd paperwork finished for meetings. Not late, just on time. But I *might* be late so….
@merlep01756164 @JJRodV This was the format of some of my more intensive graduate courses- meet the rubric/requirements and participate in ways that demonstrate skill/understanding and ‘A’
@AutisticCoach_ 2/I was stunned, but managed 3 services in 3 states in 3 weeks. Didn’t feel deep grief until winter, turned on heat in my dad’s car (I kept), and it smelled just like him-old spice, cigarettes, and whiskey. Those smells always bring him back. And ABBA 🙂
@AutisticCoach_ Feeling deeply when I’ve lost pets, with the people I’ve lost it takes more time-I think I’m more in my head with memories and thoughts about them and how my life is different now. I lost both parents in the same week, across the country from each other. 1/
@AngieTheOptimus @ashleyann_atx I keep having this discussion with others in my line of work. ‘He’s just wanting attention. He gets plenty of attention.’ Well obviously not.
@brightblueorb I have but I’ve been told it’s -a- my use of words or b- my stilted interactions come off as ‘formal’/overly structured or c- general demeanor (low eye contact, less affect, more monotone, etc)