I think many people who have never left their Nigerian hinterland before need to visit Elmina Castle someday and take note of where the church is located - directly above the slave dungeon. Praying to the lord on the top floor, while Africans physically rotted to death in filth undreneath. Whenever one of the Africans died, the oyibos would leave their chapel, go into the dungeon, remove them corpse and toss it into the sea.
Then go back to praying to white Jesus for a successful upcoming auction of African human cargo.
Maybe after doing the tour, it will provide some perspective and help them think about the implication of whether the descendants of the people who built Elmina castle have somehow grown to care about your miserable African life because you are a "Christian". The Africans they spent centuries raping in industrial numbers, using their skin as leather, hanging from trees, using their hair as sofa stuffing, and sometimes even eating outright, were "Christians" too.
Being a Christian never stopped an oyibo man from being about his money and power first and foremost. Unfortunately, it sometimes feels like the wrong people were loaded onto the slave ships. They left all the dummies and weaklings behind. Still too soft in the head to grasp something that oyibo's actions have spent the past 500 years trying to teach them.
This is the kind of "opposition" Nigerians love. Sue the presidency in a court that is under the authority of the Chief Justice who is appointed by the presidency.
1,000 motion, 0 movement.
If you tell them that they'd get a much bigger result if they came out in numbers and blockaded the US embassy in Abuja like the Nigeriens did the French embassy in Niamey 3 years ago, they'll tell you "Why don't you come to Nigeria and do it yourself? CIA man!"
Make una continue to dey whine una selves. Continue to "hold your leaders accountable" by suing them in Kekere-Ekun's court, and "voting them out" with an INEC that receives funding from the US government under a commissioner that is an APC member.
And when it doesn't work, do it again. If it didn't work the first 569,000 times you already did it, try it another 697,000,000 times. When you're reaching the end of the 55 years you are statically likely to survive as a Nigerian and you're finally realising nothing has changed, instead of telling your kids to do the opposite of what you did, tell them "nIgEriA iS cUrSed, dO aNythInG yOu cAn tO mOvE tO cAnaDa".
Very wise people, Nigerians. 🥲
So a lot of times I hear Ladies say things like..
“Men love being providers, it makes them feel good when they’re able to provide”
Then when it’s time to state what makes them(women) feel good, they start listing what Men should do for them again.
I’m like.. If a Man doing something for YOU makes HIM feel good, shouldn’t what makes you feel good be something you do for your Man too ?
But I get it if you don’t get it.. Y’all are so soaked in self-centeredness that all you want to do is RECEIVE either-ways, so i’ll just speak to the Men instead….
If your girl is stating things that makes her happy/feel good and it’s all about things you should be doing for her(as against what she does for you)
Re-evaluate that union bro.
A young man sent me a message after reading my thread on why a man must look at his fiancée's mother before choosing a wife.
What he told me stayed with me.
He said his father once made him end a 5-year relationship because of his fiancée's mother.
The painful part was that the lady herself was a good woman.
She was kind.
Loyal.
They cared for each other and were already planning a future together.
But his father told him:
"It is better to have a bad wife than a bad in-law."
He thought his father was being unreasonable.
After all, he wasn't marrying the mother.
He was marrying the daughter.
But his father refused to budge.
The saddest part was that he could not tell his fiancée the real reason for the breakup.
The mother and daughter were extremely close.
He knew the truth would damage their relationship forever.
So he carried the blame alone.
She believed he simply stopped loving her.
Years later, he says he still lives with that guilt.
When I asked what was so bad about her mother, he explained.
According to him, she was the type of person who took every conflict to social media.
Family issues became public discussions.
Friends' secrets became public content.
When she was angry, she exposed people without caring who got hurt.
She could be harsh, vindictive, and would even publicly attack her own children.
To be fair, he admitted she loved her children deeply and would do anything to protect them.
But there were two incidents his father never overlooked.
The first was when her son took a car his father bought for him and disappeared with it.
Instead of handling the matter privately, she allegedly posted her own son online as a wanted criminal despite objections from his father.
The second was even more troubling.
After divorcing her husband, she allegedly went online claiming she was still married to him because he had remarried abroad.
According to the man, she did it to create problems for him and threaten the life he had built.
What concerned his father wasn't just the incidents themselves.
It was what they revealed.
A willingness to weaponize private information when angry.
A willingness to destroy reputations to win conflicts.
A habit of escalating problems instead of resolving them.
Ironically, the ex-husband wasn't an irresponsible man.
He provided for the family.
His children attended top private universities.
The family lived comfortably.
Yet the environment remained deeply toxic.
Then he told me something that made the story even sadder.
His ex-fiancée already carried scars from her parents' turbulent relationship.
She often spoke about the pain both parents had caused her.
Before the breakup, she had even suspected that her family's issues influenced his father's decision.
But he refused to confirm it.
He couldn't bear becoming another person who abandoned her because of wounds she didn't create.
So he took the blame and walked away.
And to this day, he says he still carries the guilt.
Now listen carefully.
The lesson is not that every daughter becomes her mother.
Life is not that simple.
Many people consciously choose a different path.
The lesson is that marriage is never just about the person you are marrying.
You are marrying into a family culture.
You are marrying into values.
You are marrying into habits.
You are marrying into patterns of conflict, communication, forgiveness, and accountability.
Sometimes the question is not whether the mother is good or bad.
The question is:
"What does this family do when they are angry?"
Because character is often revealed during conflict, not during peace.
And that was the question this man's father believed he had already answered.
Again, I want to repeat:
Wise men also pay attention to patterns.
Because love may blind you for a season.
But family culture can follow you for a lifetime.
End.
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An anonymous person who works at the INEC office told me that crazy things are happening behind closed doors that Nigerians are not aware of, that over 60% of Nigerians who recently registered for a new PVC will not get their PVC to vote.
For days now, I have been raising awareness for INEC to release PVCs for collection, but nobody is amplifying my voice.
I give up on this country since the youths don’t react to anything.
You should share this everywhere. WhatsApp. Facebook. Instagram. Tiktok.
Run targeted ads on Pornhub & xnxx, I don't care.
This is what your lived reality has been under APC. Your life, fizzled.
You are living it but sometimes you need someone to shove it in your face.