I still can't believe school never taught us anything about mortgages, credit scores, savings, taxes, or how politics actually impacts our lives. No proper lessons on budgeting, rent, interest, or how to avoid drowning in debt once you reach adulthood. But somehow we had time to learn cursive handwriting, complicated algebra we've never used since, the cells of a leaf, Venn diagrams, and how to set magnesium on fire with a Bunsen burner. Funny how school prepared us for exams, but barely prepared us for real life.
When it comes to relationship or marriage, having money is not what will make her see you as a man.
You have to first be a man before money.
So that you don't keep seeing your money as the major reason why she's with you.
A man who constantly shows neediness and scarcity mindset, will always be looked down at by his woman.
Even if he has money.
You need money in marriage because money is used for paying bills.
And as a man, paying bills is your core duty in that marriage.
But what then happens when the money stops flowing in as before?
Will you stop being a man because of that?
Never make a woman feel like you can never walk away from that relationship or marriage.
State and show clearly what your boundaries are, and the consequences that she will face if she crosses certain red lines.
When a woman sees that you are not a weakling, she'll either sit up and follow your lead, or she will walk away to go follow another man's lead.
End.
There is nothing that repels money faster than neediness
If you are desperate you will be eaten alive
The slower you take it the faster your account grows
The more you rush it the slower you progress
The best way to get rich quick in trading is to stop trying to get rich quick
I'm not one to force my religion on anyone
I have atheist students
Buddhist
Muslim
and Christian like myself
I respect your belief
But I will say the biggest edge is beyond the charts
It's your relationship with Christ
Without God backing me I wouldn't be here
โI can do all things through Christ who strengthens meโ
-Philippians 4:13
When you feel exhausted remember that you are powered by an ancient engine, the collective stamina of every soul in your lineage who refused to give up.
then took other trades that didn't play out well and my small trading account of 60$ blew up.
The 'pov' here is that none of those debts were paid; I don't have another account to trade on; I don't have a dime to even credit another account; psychology was shattered...
Due to minor retracement/retest of entry and the things I listed below; even when I knew it wouldn't come to my SL or even take me out. I was looking for other trade that could give me quick profit to sort out myself, but I was so unfortunate to exit the trade early...
As youโre grinding, always pray to God to grant you the wisdom to multiply what you have.
Because no matter how hard you hustle, if youโre not wise enough to multiply your resources, youโll eventually find yourself moving in circles.
Itโs not just about making money.
Itโs about knowing what to do with the money when it comes.
Pray for wisdom. Pray for discipline. Pray for opportunities. And pray for the ability to recognize and maximize them when they come.
Psychology excuses are cope for poor discipline.
โI felt ill so I didnโt trade todayโ
You literally have to look at the charts and click some buttons, you lazy mf ๐
Without discipline you wonโt succeed in anything in life, let alone trading.
Discipline is only one piece of the puzzle, itโs a pre-requisite.
@tradewithola The fact that the loss I had then have been cressed in her mind, that is how she always remember it each time I lose money; perhaps I was the one that made her beheld such amount all her life.
@tradewithola Just as mine have told all my friends that I owe her and even went further to tell them that I lost over N10million Naira in March/April, because I was vulnerable to her. POV do not borrow from a woman or let you woman know how much income you make
Shit happened to me on this trade and I learnt so much from it.
The type of things that happens when you trade with little, borrowed funds or you had urgent debts to pay.
I had waited for this trade from last week, but wasn't patient enough to hold...