Existing feels like borrowed skin,
Like I was never meant to begin.
Each breath rehearsed, each word a cue
A version of me passing through.
Sometimes I feel I’m out of sync,
Pretending more than most would think.
I wear myself like it’s a mask—
Being real feels like a task 🙌
Men,
When you have a job opportunity,
— Don't employ because of sympathy.
"I have a sick child, please employ me."
"I am suffering, I need a job."
Once you employ them, they will torment you with excuses.
"My child is sick. I won't come."
"I am broke. I don't have fare."
Or, once their problem is sorted, they will leave the job.
Employ someone because they have the passion to work.
You are employing him to create solutions for your clients, not to create solutions for his problems.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
Your mother-in-law is NOT your relative.
She doesn't like you.
The thought of you seeing her daughter naked every night drives her mad.
She pretends to like you but if you eavesdrop how she describes you in your absence, you will faint.
SAVE A MAN
#MasculinitySaturday