It's about balance, and if the preference is strong, you cannot be firm more than a child is willing to be stubborn.
The best approach is to treat it as a case by case basis, try to understand why the child is acting that way, then choose accordingly.
Allowing your children to choose another meal when they donโt like what youโve served for dinner is a sure-fire way to raise entitled, spoiled, mentally fragile kids.
I think this statement is often made without a lot of context. Drogba, for all his strengths, had disgustingly low availability. His time adjusted stats are a lot better than his raw numbers suggests, and in seasons where he played fully, he had impress output
The inaccuracy in this aside, nothing about old testament Yahweh suggests he cared about fairness. From Esau and Jacob to taking out 70,000 innocent people in one day with a pestilence because David ordered a census.
Those were the halcyon days. Wake up, go to another hostel to visit friends, read what you want, play games all day, gist, have time for your spiritual life, etc etc. If there's a heaven, it's not much better than that.
God knows I really miss uni. Just thought about how much fun I used to feel after exams each semester, and I'm not sure I can ever experience that level of mindlessness and freedom again, except maybe at retirement.