The feeling of being better than the next man will always be one of the easiest sources of dopamine for the low IQ masses. Unfortunately, due to it’s ready availability, it will never stop.
Nature abhors a vacuum. If we’re mimicking biological systems to create computational systems. Then all possible connections of methods that we form within the substrate of reality already exists biologically in someway within reality.
Cue in: Cloud Computation
There is going to be a grand distraction. Something that will drive Nigerians to APC. What that is I don’t know. I do know APC is scared to play any crazy move. But they’re desperate. Something is coming but I don’t just know it yet.
Responding to an earlier event: Completely disengage, don’t go further. A simple “NOTED” is recommended. A lot of times you might not be able to see where you’re wrong immediately, learn to say let me think about it. Fairly analyze later and apologize if need be.
Dissection: Once structure of complaint has been established. You can then clearly understand what’s going on. For case one; Blame; Never accept blame, but acknowledge feelings.
Trying to be heard: Listen and acknowledge feelings, apology allowed.
Containment: First thing is to establish firmly the premise. What are they saying exactly, and hold onto that statement and stick solely to that statement. Are they blaming, trying to be heard or in an emotional state and responding to something that maybe happened earlier.
A catch-22 you either admit wrong doing by apologizing or you don’t apologize and double down and risk straining the relationship to where they blame you for being unreasonable.
Most people don’t reason all the way through on why they feel some type of way. For us who do, we tend to fall into the argument fallacy where you try to explain to people where they’re wrong in the belief they’ll change. It’ll almost never work. Then what do you do?