i will make it porn addiction, i knew a guy in ohio, an old friend who said porn helped him relax... he smart, disciplined, gym, good physique, business-minded. no red flags.
then i noticed something small but serious, he couldn’t sit with silence, couldn’t stay present in conversations, he couldn’t feel desire unless it was instant and intense... real women bored him, real effort annoyed him, real intimacy felt like work.
he wasn’t addicted to pleasure, he was addicted to escape. porn didn’t ruin his life loudly, it just quietly trained him to avoid discomfort, delay and depth.
it’s quietly training people to be less human, less patient and less capable of real intimacy... that’s why society defends it so hard cos admitting it’s harmful would mean admitting we normalized a coping mechanism that slowly erodes patience, masculinity, intimacy and self-control... without ever looking like a crisis.
top male canon events
- grandma dying
- 19yr old summer
- voluntarily fumbling a 10/10
- finding your signature cocktail order
- participating in whooping a nigga ass who really deserved it
- getting jumped
- solo trip
- quitting/fired from ur bullshit 9-5
- cracking fl studio
I don’t wanna hear non Black Americans say “nigga” anymore and stop using our music samples, etc without OUR CULTURE none of these children of foreigners would have money/motion.
Hypersexuality isn’t healthy libido, it’s stress compensation. Low dopamine and thyroid with high estrogen and serotonin push compulsive sexual seeking to briefly raise dopamine, without real satisfaction.
Working 8–9 hours a day and then going home to about 3-4 hours to yourself, which includes getting ready for the next day, is not living, to be very honest.
@StephaEnyinna If you mean he’s a prostitute in the same way that the God of the Bible speaks about people prostituting themselves before other gods, then yea I actually agree💯.