Once i mentally separate myself from a situation you'll never get the same me. I'm somebody you gotta do right by the first time because my mental detachment doesn't allow reconnection. Especially because at my age its hard to make sense out of another grown person trying to play
Do not ignore me. You can tell me you don't want to talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case may be.
Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.
a girl on tik tok just said "i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and i think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
So tired of the 50/50 conversation. Women were not made to split bills with men. Women are suppose to pay in love , nurture, and eventually children. Women are suppose to take care of the home that a man pays for . The end! this is God plan not mine ๐