BROWN PANDA

Becoming, evolving, impacting

[Franky | ADHD @FrankyVerse]

HOW PEOPLE WITH ADHD REST WHEN THEY’RE HEAVY ON THE ‘H’ IN ADHD

Nobody sees the hyperactivity. They just see a very productive day off. 1/5

[SUNNY @SISUNNY001]

An avoidant discard is nothing like a normal breakup.

It’s when someone who was the closest person to you just yesterday suddenly cuts off all emotional connection.

No explanation. No goodbye. As if nothing ever existed between you.

And the most terrifying part isn’t losing them. It’s how overnight, you go from being someone they loved to a complete stranger.

[David Saviour @Save_d001]

THINGS THAT MAKE HIM MISS YOUR ENERGY OVERNIGHT

1. Stop Chasing:::. 1//8

[Emergency 🌷 @X_sun_ny]

WHEN SOMEONE WITH ADHD WANTS TO SPEND THEIR LIFE WITH YOU, THESE THINGS ALMOST ALWAYS HAPPEN.

Plenty of people still assume an ADHD partner can’t plan past next week.

[Emergency 🌷 @X_sun_ny]

A narcissist will call you difficult the moment you stop being easy to manipulate. They will call you disrespectful when you stop tolerating disrespect. They will call you cold when you finally match their lack of empathy. Funny how you're always the problem when you stop playing the role they assigned you.

[TOMI🦅 @TOMISINSPARK_]

Blu Jasmine revealed that a man once paid her $10,000 to fulfill some of his most unusual fantasies, including being insulted, burned with cigarettes, and even drinking her urine. She said the arrangement started after he contacted her during a livestream where she was joking around with a whip.

According to Blu Jasmine, he transferred the money over several days and also asked her and her friends to visit expensive restaurants, bring him their leftover food, and record themselves spitting in it before he ate it. She said he was willing to pay $10,000 each time.

“He would do it, and he would give me like ten thousand dollars each time.”

[TOMI🦅 @TOMISINSPARK_]

Mitch Jones hit big on Stack ’Em and handed the entire $8K win to a giveaway viewer. Follow him at twitch(.)tv/mitchjones where chat gets a shot at over $200K in daily giveaways.

[TOMI🦅 @TOMISINSPARK_]

Big Body Catrece says getting a BBL changed more than just her appearance. While the procedure brought plenty of unwanted attention, she also noticed that people from more affluent social circles began approaching her and that new opportunities started opening up.

Asked whether spending $10,000–$15,000 on a BBL was worth it, Catrece gave an unexpected answer: it made her life better in some ways and worse in others.

“Both. A lot of unwanted attention, but I do see myself entering doors I never thought I would enter.”

[TOMI🦅 @TOMISINSPARK_]

Big Body Catrece opened up about the childhood trauma she experienced from being forced to take on advlt responsibilities at a very young age. She revealed that when she was just 10 years old, her mother started having more children, and she had to take care of her younger siblings as though they were her own children. She explained that she would wake up as early as 4 a.m. to prepare bottles, change diapers and comfort crying babies, even though she still had school to attend. She recalled that people often mistook her younger brothers for her own children because she was always the one taking care of them.

“I used to have to wake up at 4:00 a.m. to fix bottles, to change diapers, to pat a crying baby back to sleep when I had school. Mind you, I’m in middle school at this time.”

[TOMI🦅 @TOMISINSPARK_]

Valentine Nappi revealed that becoming a 🌽 star had been a fantasy of hers since she was a teenager. After studying art and the avant-garde movement toward the end of high school, she felt there was still a lot more to explore creatively in 🌽. She was also curious about understanding sexuality better, especially why people often have such reserved attitudes toward it. Beyond that, she wanted to have fun, try new experiences and challenge the stereotypes surrounding the industry. She promised herself that she would approach the work seriously and show people a different side of 🌽.

“I promised myself, I’m going to do this. I’m going to do it right, and I’m going to try to show people another face of 🌽 because, you know, there’s certain stereotypes.”

[BROWN PANDA @PANDA_09160]

ADHD is being able to handle a genuine emergency with surprising calm, then spending three days mentally preparing to make a phone call that will probably take 40 seconds.

[Franky | ADHD @FrankyVerse]

I've always questioned systems that people accept without a second thought. If something benefits a few while disadvantaging everyone else, "that's just how it is" has never felt like a satisfying answer.

[BROWN PANDA @PANDA_09160]

One of the strangest parts of having both autism and ADHD is noticing patterns in people's behavior that others seem to miss.

You mention what you're seeing. Nobody takes it seriously.

Then weeks or months later, exactly what you were worried about happens.

And somehow, everyo

[Emergency 🌷 @X_sun_ny]

One of the most painful realizations about dysfunctional family dynamics is discovering that your distress was never allowed to simply exist without someone making it about themselves.. 1//5

[Emergency 🌷 @X_sun_ny]

ADHD meds are all fun and games until you realize you were supposed to be focused on working not fixing your printer so you can print a shipping label from Depop because you decided to sell something that was on Vinted on Depop and it finally sold. So now it’s been 2 hours and you haven’t fixed the printer and you haven’t started work. I know the key is to take them and get started on work but sometimes even that doesn’t go as planned 🫩

[Weems 💰 @GBillyfx]

THE NARCISSIST-EMPATH CONNECTION

The narcissist-empath connection is toxic but common.

Narcissists are drawn to empaths because: ⤵️

1️⃣ Empaths are natural caregivers
They love helping people and narcissists exploit this generosity,

[Emergency 🌷 @X_sun_ny]

When I speak about Black Neurodivergence I mean ASD, ADHD, OCD, Dyslexia, Dyscalculia, Dysgraphia, Sensory Processing Differences, Synesthesia, Tourette's, Aphasia and more. Living with any of these while Black is a different lived experience. That's what this page is about.

[Emergency 🌷 @X_sun_ny]

NOBODY WARNED MY RELATIONSHIP ABOUT MY ADHD. SO HERE'S THE WARNING I SHOULD HAVE COME WITH.

[Gali @galiofgalilee]

WAIT WAIT WAIT — SO APPARENTLY WHEN YOUR ADHD WIFE CRIES AND SAYS "YOU HATE ME, DON'T YOU?" AFTER YOU LITERALLY JUST ASKED "HEY, DID YOU MOVE MY KEYS?"—SHE ISN'T BEING MANIPULATIVE, THAT’S A REAL BRAIN GLITCH??

Yes, and it is called Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). Here is why a harmless 5-word question hits her chest like an emotional bomb:1/6

[Emergency 🌷 @X_sun_ny]

ADHD IS WILD...

I can be completely overwhelmed by everything I need to do.

But give me a problem that has absolutely nothing to do with my responsibilities?

Suddenly I'm a fucking expert with unlimited energy.