But Some of you are panicking too much. Yet You’re going to be just fine,just keep your head up. Kwani sisi tumefutwo kazi mara ngapi? Tumekua karibu kurudi ocha mara ngapi? Tumeambiwa mara ngapi we will never amount to anything because we look hopeless? Bwana some of these things you just take them easy. Stop running around and breathe, and also Relax,You’re not going to die. Jobs will come and they will go. You will meet new people and the ones you think you can’t live without now,will be nothing but fading memories. Maisha bado mrefu sana.
Ask questions that reveal truth:
• Does this person bring calm or confusion?
• Do they take responsibility or shift blame?
• Do they grow from correction or resist it?
• Do I feel expanded… or contracted around them?
•Do they accept the gifts that you carry
•Do not confuse intensity with destiny.
•Do not call chaos “connection.”