To the fathers and men who keep going even when it’s not easy, who adjust, provide legitimately and sacrifice without ever asking for recognition, your efforts doesn't go unnoticed. A lot of families are standing because you refused to give up and because you've been amazing leaders.
May God bless and reward us all immensely 🙏❤️
Dear yahoo boys.
While others are learning something real, you’re just repeating the same cycle every day.
No growth, just more risk.
Time is moving, but you’re not moving forward.
That part is silent but dangerous.
You will suffer in a way you will think there is no God.
SDY
The most brutal part of your hustle isn't the risk of jail, it’s the fact that you are becoming functionally useless.
While your peers are learning how to manage people, build systems, and trade global value, you are learning how to lie and refresh a bank page.
At 35, when the formats change and the tech blocks you, you will have the brain of a teenager in the body of an old man.
You’ll be too proud to start an entry level job and too broke to maintain your fake life.
You are literally retiring yourself into poverty before you even hit your prime.
The earlier you stop and learn a real skill, the better, because pressing is not a career it’s a countdown to becoming a liability.
Shout out to every young guy working legitimately out there.
So my guy shared his own experience with a guy who is a Senior Electrician in their compound.
Very helpful man,every time the light goes off, he’s the one who helps the single ladies and the older mamas to change over their Gen or fix their tripping breakers and he never takes money.
So Light went off last month during the heavy rain. One of the guys in the BQ decided to check his own wire because the Electrician guy wasn't around.
He opened the central distribution box and saw something crazy.
The Senior Electrician had bridged the wires of four different flats to his own meter.
For 4 months, he hasn't paid a kobo for light. Whenever he fixed a neighbor's tripping breaker, he was actually adjusting the bridge to make sure his AC was running on their bill.
He wasn't helping helping he was just living off their sweat.
We are our problem in this country🤦♂️
To young fathers, who knows their son is into yahoo and they are pushing him to do more.
Know that your old age won’t be good, and the illness you are calling upon yourself is what that yahoo money with cure and it will make you spend a lot you didn’t imagine you will spend.
The country is hard that’s why you pushing that boy to continue doing yahoo.
You are a failed father.
The young guys working legitimately don’t live in another part of Nigeria, you have no valid excuse for that.
When the consequences come all the fruit of labour you think you are enjoying.
You will suffer for it
End.
So a Yahoo boy sent me a message, and this one hit me .
He said he specialized in romance scam talking to lonely women and making them fall in love just to empty their accounts.
He made over ₦60M last year. He used the money to buy a house for his parents and felt like it will be one of the best gift for them for their suffering.
Looking at where they were staying before.
But he said the day his father found out the source of the money, the old man had a stroke.
His father refused to enter the house, saying he’d rather die in the trenches than live in the new house. He told me I built a mansion but lost my home.
My father died without saying a word to me, and my mother looks at me like the wicked child.
He’s living in that ₦60M house alone, and he said his mental health is really messed up and he isn’t even enjoying the money without is family been there.
Some wins are actually the biggest losses.
I have shared couple of stories here, the fact you don’t hear or know doesn’t mean things ain’t happening.
And that’s why i will continue sharing for those who will pick something from it.
Stop doing yahoo/fraud you are not the only one in Nigeria suffering.
There was this couple who were supposed to japa together.
The guy got a scholarship to the UK and was planning to bring the girl as his dependent.
They went to do their TB tests and final medicals for the visa, and that was when they decided to just check their genotype one last time to be sure.
Both came out AS,they were really shocked because the lady has always thought she was AA based on the tests she did when she was younger.
The guy had offered to stay back, to give up the scholarship just to be with her, but the girl refused.
She told him, If he stays, they might eventually hate each other when the reality of childless marriage or sick kids hits them.
She followed him to the airport, hugged him goodbye, and blocked him before he even boarded the flight.
She said that was the only way she could move on and it was the only way to make sure he actually starts his new life too.
He is in London now,doing really well and she's also doing really well for herself here in Nigeria but they both haven't really moved on.
I feel like they should have just stick together and explored other options like IVF .
There was this girl my guy once dated for a year.
They did everything together, but she never for once posted him or them together.
Her excuse? She's a private person and
doesn't want people to cast an evil eye on their love.
Funny thing was that he believed her and even hid his relationship status then from us to protect her.
One time he saw a Congratulatory post on one of their mutual friend’s status.
His girl had just done a private introduction with another guy she had been dating for two years.
When he called her, screaming, she said she never told him they were exclusive,She said he was just her uni boyfriend with benefits.
He felt completely played and betrayed enhh but He learnt his lesson since then.
So you guys that are in a secret relationship or those of you that date people who don't even post you even on your birthdays how do you do it please?
Because this doesn't make sense to me at all😂😂😂
There was this girl my guy once dated for a year.
They did everything together, but she never for once posted him or them together.
Her excuse? She's a private person and
doesn't want people to cast an evil eye on their love.
Funny thing was that he believed her and even hid his relationship status then from us to protect her.
One time he saw a Congratulatory post on one of their mutual friend’s status.
His girl had just done a private introduction with another guy she had been dating for two years.
When he called her, screaming, she said she never told him they were exclusive,She said he was just her uni boyfriend with benefits.
He felt completely played and betrayed enhh but He learnt his lesson since then.
So you guys that are in a secret relationship or those of you that date people who don't even post you even on your birthdays how do you do it please?
Because this doesn't make sense to me at all😂😂😂
So, this is what I would say.
I'll ignore the hypocrisy of men but still advice them.
Even if you meet a lady as a virgin, & then you deflower her.
Please do not say that because you deflowered her, then you must marry her if she's not the type of wife that you need.
If you deflower her and it turns out that she's a good choice for you, please do all you can to marry her.
That's exactly what I did.
Do not let taking a woman's virginity to guilt trip you, as long as you did not promise her marriage before you deflowered her.
You approached her like every other young man would approach a young lady.
You later discovered that she was a virgin. You were in a relationship with her after you have deflowered her, and she cheated on you.
Please move on from that relationship.
You discovered that she's very disrespectful and has a terrible upbringing & a mother whose character you are not pleased with.
Please move on from that relationship.
She cannot cook, clean or she's lazy. And you have tried to caution her but she feels because she gave you her virginity, then she has done all that is needed.
Please move on from that relationship.
And many other things that you consider to be a red flag for you.
Let me tell you.
When it comes to choosing a wife or a husband, it goes far beyond sentiments, pity, or self-guilt..
On the flip side, some of you ladies are in a toxic relationship because you don't want to increase your body counts.
He deflowered you and so what?
If he's not behaving like a man that you'd wish to be your husband and father of your children, do not remain in that relationship simply because he deflowered you.
And do not let him have that power over you. If he's not treating you right, please do not waste your time in that relationship.
What is important is that you're feminine, you have shame and you know what it means to have a family that is led by a kind and focused man.
Not a liar and a narcissist.
I hope you understand me.
End.