@xevekiah And that somehow that always turns into, "Why are you attacking me?"
I hope this enlightens you to see that we are all in this. The other gender is not your enemy. The system is the enemy against both genders.
@xevekiah Men adjust their behaviour because of what might happen. Women get upset because of how the adjustment makes them feel.
One side is responding to risk.
The other is responding to hubris.
It's not "I hate you personally."
Its "the system has proven I need to be careful."
As long as you are alive and in social connections, you will occasionally offend others while being offended and that's expected. What is unexpected is when you will offend others and when they'll offend you - that part comes as a surprise, a culture shock, or a rude awakening!
In the physical dating spaces when meeting with new people, you may think an introvert is not into you or doesn't care. Equally, you may think you have buy-in from an extrovert and that they are into you. Oh, not necessarily!
#DatingTruths#IntrovertVsExtrovert#ModernDating
Human beings, especially women and children, love the excitement of novelty. So, when there is nothing new to explore, we get bored. So God keeps His divinity concealed so that you cant explain Him by logic and only by faith can you access the glimpses of His infinite nuances.
Children are not an achievement. They are an assignment.
Don't rush to have children if you lack the structure to complete the assignment of fatherhood.
@hilcrowder Question, on a serious note, with no condemnation whatsoever, what is the woman supposed to do in exchange for the man's willingness to storm the gates of hell for her? Post that too so that your POV can cease to be lopsided.
God & Systems honour the office more than the officer. A leader in power by nature, appointment or election usually exercises authority during their tenure without opposition from God or systems, till their time is over or until a legal means of usurping authority is applied.
@maira4yo The reverse is true. Women leave a man when they disrespect him...and they disrespect a man who doesn't respect and value himself enough to be unwavering about his kind of love and his expectation when it comes to reciprocity, and one who is not willing to walk away!