Spiritual ways are not 1+1= to what you think. It’s not logic, neither is it common sense or what you know. I mean it cannot be calculated.
Just like God.
The best way to solve a problem is to tackle its likely source of emergence.
It’s better to avoid a problem than trying to solve it.
Even if it creeps in by any means, the likely hood of you dealing with it efficiently will be there, because you were trying to avoid it.
It takes me decades before I would cut off certain people from my life. I take long bcos I learnt tolerance, trust & forgiveness. But, if that is not being reciprocated and instead I get the opposite, when I want to cut off, I use a double edged knife. Nothing makes me rethink.
When you fail in your duties, you are likely going to defend the failure and those that caused the failure in order for the failure not to be seen. And, in return you will fight those who saw the failure and tried to point it out.
It’s reversed psychology.
Lack of wisdom can lead you to do things that is already a pattern in your bloodline.
So, instead of moving away from the pattern by wisdom, you see yourself fulfilling that agenda due to the lack of wisdom.