@Theholisticpsyc I have this with one of my clise friends. I get "compassion fatigue" and have to step away from her periodically. We have the same conversations about what she's going to do and how things will change. And it never does. It's hard to keep supporting someone who can't/won't change
@Philippa_Perry I was married and had multiple ONS and affairs. I wanted him to step up. I left saying I'm just going to keep doing this to you and you're a nice chap i don't want to break you.
8 years on living on my own having therapy and learning about myself. Hes happily married again.
@GingeKnievil I waited at the dentist this week...by the loos unfortunately. 3 people came straight out without washing their hands. Then touching doors...which i then have to touch. People are awful!