@onlyone_success You see how alot of this girls still donโt understand relationship. If a man does all this, why does he need or want you then? Instead of saying you will contribute all this to him and the marriage so that there will be value from you, but you prefer all to come from him.
@jennygodswill You mean prenup that many women in the society are initiating. There is levels to relationship lady. Relationship of the broke and that of the rich ainโt same. Do you even know what a person will have that will make them think of prenup in the first place?
@BloomeGlow @shezzz_pretty I guess you also didnโt know that if the man donโt want to pay child support all he has to do is stay out of work or travel to another country
@Beebah_Naturals But indirectly its the-same as marrying a lady who has nothing and she will show you shege just to take all you have worked hard for. So men stay away from any woman who isnโt as rich as you and women stay away from any man who isnโt as rich as you. Else one of you is a thief
@olajumokeokenla The moment i saw the post i went to check and saw she was in the US, I was like how do you even come into a UK convo to compare? Like the nurses in the UK they know what their going through but you want to come and show off what they donโt have
@KLeeeyah@phveektordrayne Not supporting the cheating, but know this no one wants to be second in the life of whom they see as first. Know the lines between your relationship and friendship. Mind you if the bestie get opportunity him go smash, if you think say I lie try to cry on his shoulder
@Oluomoofderby There is a part of relationship nobody talks about .. i think. At some point in our lives as men and women, we were genuinely and innocently in love and would do anything to make eachother happy. ( when we all be person mumu). Now everything is literally like a workflow chat
@yabaleftonline Everybody wants to copy the western world, but itโs a good thing. My advice is parents in Nigeria please copy the western world too as your kids are doing so you can throw them out on the street of Lagos the moment they become 17 or 18. Let them go fend for their self and eductn
@oma22k Break up and divorce him, he has absolutely no right to tell you where to be or whom to see. That is controlling. Break up there are better men out there.
@hewantswealth I think it should be allowed for people to calculate the cost incurred for work and let it be deducted before tax same way businesses owners does it.
What do you expect? Donโt you see ladies post on here the only way any lady will take you seriously is if you spend money on her. And you see thousands of ladies seconding such. No one is stupid or naive anymore. You only like my money not me who works hard for it.
Relationships in this country is really messยฃd up.
Other countries, youโll see young people in a relationship building and growing together, without financially draining each other.
In Nigeria is different, two adults will be in a relationship and one is expected to carry the financial responsibilities, while still taking care of himself.
An 18 year old girl in Nigeria will be expecting an 18 year old boy to take care of her like her father would, where she expects him to get the money is still a mystery to me.