“the thought caused me a good deal of grief. what a terrible thing it is to wound someone you really care for - and to do it so unconsciously.”
- Haruki Murakami
Are you gonna look back at yourself in 20 years and be like “i didn’t go to the first Knicks ticker tape parade because it was a little uncomfortable?” Shiiiiii
You just need to take a good look at all the older people who didn't get to live the life they wanted, and it will become obvious that the causes are always the same, generation after generation: