Siphokazi M

Joel 2:25-27 🖤 UJ 🎓 Accountant 👩🏽‍💻

[Siphokazi M @Phoki_M]

Next year I’m a gym girlie, a studying girlie and a gone girlie 🙏🏾🤝🏾

[𝓜𝓲𝓼𝓼 𝓣 🪭 @masiz1ba]

@SaniyaDhawan1 I’ve removed Instagram, TikTok and WhatsApp from my phone all that’s left is Twitter and iMessages, I feel bored 🤣but my mental health is good

[her🎀 @iam_dijah5]

Upgrading my appearance.
Becoming hard to reach.
Working 24/7.
Choosing happiness.
Cutting off toxic people.
No roaster.
Enjoying my alone time.
Forgiving myself.

[Temi F🅱️F @holarofLagos1]

Me adjusting my lifestyle according to my budget 😭😂

[Ndeeleh❤ @sleendeel]

I hate the concept of “we experience people different” coz what have I done for you to be horrible to me but kind to the next person??😭

[idk luv, enjoy. @related_feels]

I love loverboys. Top tier. Rest of you should be in the zoo

[Sole Woyinka @_littlehuman_]

As a society, I don’t think we talk enough about how heartbreak can scatter your entire life.

[23 @Real_27ydm]

Just here to remind you guys to give up on people. They know what they are doing.

[Dura, coco money🎀 @ms0nigghaz]

And please bless me with the resources required to become that woman, and when I finally become that woman, do not let me lose myself or fumble the blessings that came with her.

[Ahmad Nguru. @AhmadUsman__]

Being loved by a very expressive person is really a flex.

[Siphokazi M @Phoki_M]

Same. Well almost. One of my close friends asked to me, I postponed just cause I wasn’t in the mood. A week later I heard he passed away, never really forgave myself 💔

[sarah 𓂀 @jmapelsarah]

janvier 2024, mon ami me demande s’il peut venir à la maison quelques jours, je lui propose de faire ça plutôt en février pcq là je reprends les cours, on convient d’une date,
3 jours après j’apprends son décès, il s’est suicidé

[Sir T Shiimi @Incredible_Tau]

I don't know who needs to hear this, but GET UP. Ask God to breathe His spirit back into you. You've been lying dormant for far too long. Ask Him to restore your creativity, your purpose, your joy, your love, your health, and your sound mind. You've slept long enough in depression, anxiety, overthinking, bitterness, loneliness, grief, brokenness, financial stress, abandonment wounds, relationship trauma, and destructive habits. Today is the last day. GET UP! Get up for your future self. Get up for your kids. Get up for the dreams God placed inside you. Get up and take your life back.

[Amara @Amara_Grace2]

1. I’m an overthinker and very emotional.

2. I hate late replies

3. I love calls and I'm very clingy

4. We must talk every day because I don’t see the point of being in a relationship with someone I barely communicate with.

5. I reciprocate energy. If you’re sweet, I’m sweet. If you’re nonchalant, I’ll be the same.

6. I need reassurance sometimes. If you’re the type that doesn’t like expressing feelings, you might find me a bit “too much.”

7. Once I start caring about you deeply, I expect consistency, not hot and cold behavior.

8. I notice little changes in behavior quickly.

9. I ask a lot of “are you okay?” questions.

10. I value consistency a lot.

11. I like attention from my partner.

12. And if something is bothering me, I’ll want us to talk about it instead of ignoring it.

[Sahil Bloom @SahilBloom]

The ability to quickly reset and recover. From a bad interaction. From a bad day. From a missed workout. From a poor decision. You can start over whenever you want. You can't always control what happened, but you can control how long you carry it.

[Freyy @Freyy_is]

the cost of living went up, salaries don’t keep up, and suddenly the things that used to signal “ready for commitment” has become impossible benchmarks.

like own a house first, be financially stable first, have your career sorted first. people are spending their whole 30s chasing the prerequisites.

and then there’s the emotional side. a generation raised on absent or unstable homes is now trying to figure out how to be vulnerable and available for someone else.

it takes therapy, self work and time. love is not the hard part anymore but being healed enough to receive it is.

social media made it worse too. you can see 500 options on an app and still feel completely alone.

the paradox of choice froze people. why settle into something when the next swipe might be better. that mindset has killed a lot of good things before they even started.

tbh, a lot of people in their 30s are not “failing” at love. they’re just tired, tired of situationships, tired of performing, tired of explaining what they need and being told it’s too much.

so they choose peace over pressure.
the world sold a lie that you have to have everything figured out before you can build with someone.

so now everyone is building alone, waiting to be “ready,” not realising ready was always something you become together​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​.

[𐌁𐌉Ᏽ 𐌕𐌉𐌌𐌉 @OrevaZSN]

My love language is that you’re the only person not ignored on the days I don’t want to talk to anyone.

[Christopher. @Chris_JNdonga]

Overwhelming a person that I actually love.

The fear of being “too much” to deal with.

[Raven Lovette 🫧 @heyhoneyrae]

I am officially done mourning the life I thought I would have by now. God’s timing, God’s will, God's way.

[LawrenceMaleka @Lawrence_Maleka]

“ I hope you make it, I hope the stars align and you can be at the right place at the right time”

[Collins🦋 @collinstimbela_]

Who else in this weird stage in their life? Drinking isn't fun anymore, relationships don t work, dating doesn t exist, work is just a distraction, and Friday nights are better spent alone.

[Rolivhuwa 🫶🏾 @ReezaySA]

Nothing cracks me up like my life. What the hell is going on? 😭🤣