And i reinforce this sentiment 7 yrs later, she has not changed even during the worst & darkest moments of her life. That is something to emulate in a person. No matter the pain & sorrow, Kath always rises above adversity with grace & does not ever let shit take over her life. 🫅
A quote worthy of sharing w/ fans &young talents who need someone to look up to. Despite the sometimes toxic & negative elements, you have been a positive & steady force in this industry. Fifteen years of learning & growth, yet remaining true to your core, is a rare treasure.
“The answer is good things only happen to you if you’re good. Good? Honest is more what I mean. Be anything but a coward, a pretender, an emotional crook, a whore: I’d rather have cancer than a dishonest heart.” T.C.
BRAVO KATHRYN! The journey of a powerful woman starts now🙏
How does one go from being a king to nothing?
Metallica's "King Nothing" is the emptiness of blind ambition, where chasing fame, fortune, or a perfect ideal (the "crown") leads to a hollow existence, leaving one w/nothing but a broken dream & isolation when it all falls apart.
So very true in every sense of the word. You handled ending dealing w/ a narcissist well, Kath. Understandably, the trauma response takes longer. The strength you have as a woman is incredible. You could have been the destroyer too but distance & indifference worked pretty well🫵
Ending a relationship with a narcissist isn’t just a breakup — it’s a psychological war you didn’t know you were fighting until it was over. People who haven’t lived it often ask, “Why can’t you just move on?” as if it’s that simple. They don’t understand that you’re not only grieving a person — you’re grieving an illusion. You fell in love with a version of someone that never truly existed, yet your body and mind still remember the love-bombing, the warmth, the moments that felt real. You’re left trying to mourn a fantasy while also piecing together the truth that every “I love you” came with hidden motives.
The hardest part isn’t just losing them — it’s losing yourself. Somewhere along the way, they trained you to prioritize their emotions over yours, to silence your needs, to question your sanity. You became who they wanted you to be — agreeable, apologetic, small. Then they discarded you like you never mattered. You stand in front of the mirror now, searching for the person you used to be before their manipulation rewired your entire nervous system. How do you explain that? How do you put into words the heartbreak of realizing that the very person who broke you also taught you to depend on them for comfort?
And even after everything — the lies, the gaslighting, the emotional chaos — part of you still waits for the version of them that once made you feel seen. That’s the cruel irony of narcissistic abuse. You crave closure from someone who built their power on your confusion. You want peace, but they only know control. The healing, therefore, doesn’t come from understanding them — it comes from forgiving yourself for not seeing it sooner. Because breaking free from a narcissist isn’t about letting go of a lover; it’s about reclaiming your mind, your peace, and the version of you that believed love wasn’t supposed to hurt like this
Large scale cheating, multiple girls leading to multiple trauma. A huge embarrassment to bosses because of immoral behaviors, shameless exploitation of good people, a narcissistic baby.
I've always been impressed by your quiet strength and resilience. You're mentally tough and composed, even in adversity, and that's what makes your pain so profound. They have no idea how much you've overcome.
A reminder that life can be unpredictable, and sometimes the people you trust to have your back end up causing you pain. 💔 They are still around, remember that you are your own heroine & have the strength to overcome any obstacle.
Remember Kath, you are the heroine of your life, never the victim.
Reality and truth are far better than the superficial, trashy lives of those people that always want to use you, envy you, exploit you, make you who you are not. @bernardokath#VoteKathrynBernardo#KCA
Eddys was one of the first to critically recognize your talent. That award in 2019 was the catalyst for your remarkable career in the next 6 years! Philomena Angeles was a gem as well as Joy HLA, cannot wait to meet Elena!
CONGRATS, GEORGE! ...... EDDY. (7/14/19)
WELL DESERVED NA, NAPANOOD PA NG MASA, KUMITA PA NG more than 1BILLION. TRIPLE HIT! @ABSCBN@bernardokath#KathNiel
May peace reside in your ❤️, bringing happiness & fulfillment. Remain true to your values & character, inspiring all. You are a special girl, for there's no one else like you in this vast universe. Wala na siyang mahahanap na katulad mo. God loves you & will bless you, Kath.
Really best to be on her own , away from the egomaniac who exploited her good nature & empathy. It's unfortunate that some individuals have hurt her, but they will eventually reap what they've sown. They are just a waste of space.